David87 Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 You love someone, you open yourself up to suffering, that's the sad truth........ Maybe they'll break your heart, maybe you'll break their heart and never be able to look at yourself in the same way. Those are the RISKS. That's the BURDEN. Like wings, they have weight, we feel that weight on our backs, but they are a burden that lifts us. Burdens which allow us to...FLY.. 6
Snakechammah Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Everything shall pass. Even farts. You'll be ok. Without risk, there can be no gain. Open your heart only to those worthy of your love and you'll lessen the risks. 6
Author David87 Posted June 10, 2014 Author Posted June 10, 2014 Everything shall pass. Even farts. You'll be ok. Without risk, there can be no gain. Open your heart only to those worthy of your love and you'll lessen the risks. Oh don't get me wrong, I'm ok but I can assure you that I wont open my heart to no one ever again. And that's a promise.
writergal Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 You should be dancing, yeah... “Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.” ― William Shakespeare, All's Well That Ends Well That's all I got... 1
Author David87 Posted June 10, 2014 Author Posted June 10, 2014 You should be dancing, yeah... “Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.” ― William Shakespeare, All's Well That Ends Well That's all I got... Thanks Jen. 1
writergal Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Oh don't get me wrong, I'm ok but I can assure you that I wont open my heart to no one ever again. And that's a promise. Sorry to hear that. It happens. Give your heart time to heal. It will. And love will find you again.
writergal Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Thanks Jen. Hey it comes from the heart my friend. Hang in there. 1
Author David87 Posted June 10, 2014 Author Posted June 10, 2014 Hey it comes from the heart my friend. Hang in there. I know ><
martaldn Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 You love someone, you open yourself up to suffering, that's the sad truth........ Maybe they'll break your heart, maybe you'll break their heart and never be able to look at yourself in the same way. Those are the RISKS. That's the BURDEN. Like wings, they have weight, we feel that weight on our backs, but they are a burden that lifts us. Burdens which allow us to...FLY.. U are a tough one David xx 1
martaldn Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Oh don't get me wrong, I'm ok but I can assure you that I wont open my heart to no one ever again. And that's a promise. course you will! give yourself some time!! 1
Author David87 Posted June 10, 2014 Author Posted June 10, 2014 U are a tough one David xx One of the best Marta lool:)) tnx xx 1
emotionalMess Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 I'm subscribing to the theory that you must love yourself first before you can give your heart fully to another. Is it my ego that was damaged or my heart? If it was ego then I can do something about fixing that. We don't have control over those who hurt us. We can however be pro-actively seeking self-awareness and self-love. Imagine loving yourself to such a degree where no one is ever capable of hurting you in the way you were hurt before. Take that action and do not allow others actions control your inner you and who you are. Truly live in the moment and be you, not your past. I'm gonna do this, we will see. 2
todreaminblue Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 You love someone, you open yourself up to suffering, that's the sad truth........ Maybe they'll break your heart, maybe you'll break their heart and never be able to look at yourself in the same way. Those are the RISKS. That's the BURDEN. Like wings, they have weight, we feel that weight on our backs, but they are a burden that lifts us. Burdens which allow us to...FLY.. quoted one word on your post david 87 the one that counted the most for you it seems you gave your own advice funny that...... that word is fly all about broken hearts and worthlessness.....you have to know worthless and broken heartedness to appreciate worthiness and a heart that flies...that sucks....but its true..... now if eve hadn't offered the apple only if......but then we wouldnt have had to be here in the first place.....wouldnt have had anything for we would have had nothingness in the human experience if there were to be that human experience for us after that forbidden fruit was ignored..... which couldnt be so its circular spiritual logic concerning brokenheartedness beyond my comprehension...... its all a waste of time as humans knowing why, we should all just fly, to where you might sigh, say to all and thee as well, who knows i am not to tell, that depends how the heavens are high its you who knows what you want and how far, you need to fly not I....deborah 1
Author David87 Posted June 10, 2014 Author Posted June 10, 2014 Well I have a new girlfirend,(2 months) but i don't love her and I don't know if I care for her....
todreaminblue Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Well I have a new girlfirend,(2 months) but i don't love her and I don't know if I care for her.... that's not good, you have to let her go then, why arent you? 1
martaldn Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 (edited) Well I have a new girlfirend,(2 months) but i don't love her and I don't know if I care for her.... you care for her but you dont love her because you love somebody else. you cant be with this person in full if you are still emotionally attached to another.. you need to give yourself time to heal and move on from the past before step into and live the future.. you are living a sweet rebound at moment and you are a clever enough to know exactly what you should do..... Edited June 10, 2014 by martaldn 2
Author David87 Posted June 10, 2014 Author Posted June 10, 2014 I will let her go Deb...eventually. Of course I know what to do Marta, it just sucks... 3
todreaminblue Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 (edited) I will let her go Deb...eventually. Of course I know what to do Marta, it just sucks... i let a guy go a couple of week sago and a few days ago i let him know that honestly i had interest in another so he couldn't stay with me overnight and just "cuddle" it would belie my heart.....and hurt his so i said no , and it felt new and unusual and made me feel a moment of guilt more than one to be truthful, but the relief i felt with honesty was much better than leading him on.I am however helping him pick up a computer for his car on friday, my sister will be in attendance.....he is a friend i care but not the way i should nor does he its more sexual on his side than true love, and maybe boredom haven't deciphered it out yet,....and its right what i did to be honest...and i feel a lot better even if the guy i do truly like doesnt like me back and considers me unworthy of a phone call as a friend even, i did the right thing ill get over it i always do, i know now i can be with someone where its mutual in every way ...one day that's my day to have.I am a little disappointed at the moment ,my heart has been sent to the naughty corner for having too much hope in a mere man. so quickly does a heart feel disappointment fickle things they are happiness to sadness resolve to uncertainty...such is the heart of an abused abandoned child......naughty corner coming up..should i cane her....nah she suffers enough with thoughtlessness ...time to move on.deb. Edited June 10, 2014 by todreaminblue 1
Michael 93 Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 I feel for you man. Does this girl know how you feel over in all? you really have to be honest with her and give the full low down just out of respect. I really believe that relationships after a break up are hard to do. Just do you for a while and hopefully one day you will meet a woman that blows your socks off. Find happiness in yourself firstly. Then find the woman you want to be with.. Don't do it out of hope you will fall in love. Because 9/10...the sad fact is you wont Keep going David 4
Author David87 Posted June 11, 2014 Author Posted June 11, 2014 I feel for you man. Does this girl know how you feel over in all? you really have to be honest with her and give the full low down just out of respect. I really believe that relationships after a break up are hard to do. Just do you for a while and hopefully one day you will meet a woman that blows your socks off. Find happiness in yourself firstly. Then find the woman you want to be with.. Don't do it out of hope you will fall in love. Because 9/10...the sad fact is you wont Keep going David Nice words Michael. I know I wont get back together with my ex ever again because she was right I wasn't ''the one'' for her. I thought she was the one for me but I guess she was right in the end. She wanted to get rid of me well she did I hope she is happy.
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