Author LuvsTrucks2 Posted June 9, 2014 Author Posted June 9, 2014 Greetings LS, Been dating a guys since February, things were really going well and if you followed some of my posts, we had a disagreement two weeks ago. We talked last Monday about how we both handled it wrong. I asked him what we were doing and he said he didn't know. The conversation seemed to end on a good note where he said he would talk to me later. We have exchanged some texts back and forth, none of them seem cold, but I have decided not to initiate any contact and have had no contact since Thursday of last week. He has a tendency to do the hot and cold routine but I thought we had moved passed that when we became intimate a month ago. My best girl friends are telling me to wait it out and continue on with my life which I have been doing but how can someone be so hot then disappear?
ExpatInItaly Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 Greetings LS, Been dating a guys since February, things were really going well and if you followed some of my posts, we had a disagreement two weeks ago. We talked last Monday about how we both handled it wrong. I asked him what we were doing and he said he didn't know. The conversation seemed to end on a good note where he said he would talk to me later. We have exchanged some texts back and forth, none of them seem cold, but I have decided not to initiate any contact and have had no contact since Thursday of last week. He has a tendency to do the hot and cold routine but I thought we had moved passed that when we became intimate a month ago. My best girl friends are telling me to wait it out and continue on with my life which I have been doing but how can someone be so hot then disappear? Lost interest before you realized it, was put off by something that happened between you, or met someone else. Unfortunately, it happens all the time. He's showing you he will still pull the hot-and-cold routine, even after becoming intimate. Are you going to tolerate that? If he's been doing that all along, I'd wager his level of interest has always been below yours.
Author LuvsTrucks2 Posted June 9, 2014 Author Posted June 9, 2014 I honestly think he is still hung up on his STBXW, they've been separated for 7 months and he said he is scared to get hurt again that's why we were moving at his pace, but I guess you could be right, maybe he was never really interested, but I'm thinking it's the ex. He has brought me around the family on several occasions and every time we were together, it was him initiating so I thought he was interested. When we were together, it wasn't always about being intimate. I guess we can never really know what's going on inside someone else's mind.
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