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Personality change after first date?


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So I met this girl from my art class over the last couple of months and got to know her. During that time, there was a lot of heavy flirting coupled with sexual innuendo. So one day I decided to ask her out then and there. Date went well.

 

Thing is after the date and even during it, things changed. She went from flirtatious like above to a totally different girl. The flirtatiousness and what not was gone; replaced by a shy girl, playing it safe, being sensible etc. Even the texts lacked the more lovey dovey type of emoticons she'd send. I became at odds because she wanted to see me again.

 

I guess I just could not tell which was the real her and which was not. So tell me do girls normally do this?

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Maybe before she just saw you as a friend and now you're more than friends so her behavior is a little different than how she presented herself before. She probably doesn't want to give you the wrong idea about her. I think people act a little different when someone's just a friend vs a love interest.

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