Mjm1014 Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 Met this girl on Tinder about a week ago, and up until our first date we two days ago we talked a decent amount everyday-or at least I would hear from her time to time. She told me I'm the only guy that got her number on that site because she feels like I want to get to know her past just her looks unlike other guys (she could be a model on a cover page). First date was great, awesome conversation, she wouldn't stop smiling or touching me, and at the end of the date I gave her a kiss and she accepted it. When I thought the kiss was over and I pulled away she said "wait!!" and kept wanting to kiss me. OKAY, here is the confusing part. Ever since the date she seems way more distant than before. I no longer hear from her unless I initiate the phone calls/texts. Last night when I called her she seemed like she didn't want to really talk on the phone (she said she was tired) so I let her go. I sent a text after our call: Me- "If you aren't into me, you can be honest..I'm getting mixed signals and I'm starting to get confused if you still want to get to know me." Her- "All I can say is we had good conversation and that you're cute. It's going to take me more than one date to decide if I'm interested or not. I know I'm not easy to crack. If you don't want to deal with that I understand." I'm a pilot and am leaving on a weeklong trip so I asked her to hang out next weekend and she said yes but wouldn't set a date/time. Since I only really have the weekends to see her it would be nice to get to know her over the phone..but why the change in behavior? I keep wondering if it is a game to see how into her I am, lack of interest, or if I am over thinking things. Lack of interested, I need to eject and move on! If it's a game to see if I will peruse her more then I need to do the opposite! What should I do?! Help guys I suck reading people. I guess I just don't understand women..if I like someone, I show them, period. I'm thinking about just going no-contact for a few days..thoughts?
J21 Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 Being distant after a date isnt a good sign, but id just give it another shot. Ask her out with a date/time one more time before ejecting (she said yes before right). I dont think your ego will get that much more bruised whether u eject now or eject after she gives a response. If she says yes, then great, go out and have a good time. You only went on 1 date with her, no need to take it so serious on your ego so quickly.
HappyLove Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 She sounds like she's playing games. I mean to go from communicating a lot to being distant sounds like a waste of time for you. Sounds full of herself 'oh your the only one worthy enough because I'm SOOO beautiful'. Give me a break. I don't have time for games if you do then have fun playing with this one. 1
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