crispywat Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 I dont know what to do really now...ive lost my girlfriend as i was a little over the top with the regards to her male friend......he basically was texting alot and being effectionate / flirty but my gf said he will always be just friends. I lost the plot at times and this made me selfish and jelous. I felt she would be going to be talking to him when not with me etc and it effected us. Anyway last weekend we had a chat and cleared the air i thought we was back on track. Sadly we ewnt out Friday (nice night) but Saturday she turned up to say it was all over. She had bene on my phone and seen a few messages that had been sent to a female and my friends about her...this was only though telling people my frustrations....that she wasnt effectionate anymore etc (she hadnt been for weeks) We have a holiday booked and now she is saying we cant even go on the holiday together, as it be awkward, shs wants to take her friend instead, i have looked forward so much to the holiday with her. Its for a few weeks time i will be gutted when the time comes. She has paid for it all but its booked under my name so shes within her rights to want the cash or she goes. In a nut shell i cant sleep etc, i wanted her soo badly to much it seems, ive asked surely we can work it out but no. What do i do now but cry
learning_slowly Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 I think your point about her paying for the trip says alot. Whatever they say, women want a man who can provide. There are exceptions. I know a few girls who would have put up with me with no money, but they have to think you are amazing in every other way. Yours needed at least for you to pay half. You may have tried and not succeeded, but you are still not at least an equal in her eyes. Work on getting your finances sorted out for when you meet your next girl.
Author crispywat Posted June 9, 2014 Author Posted June 9, 2014 I think your point about her paying for the trip says alot. Whatever they say, women want a man who can provide. There are exceptions. I know a few girls who would have put up with me with no money, but they have to think you are amazing in every other way. Yours needed at least for you to pay half. You may have tried and not succeeded, but you are still not at least an equal in her eyes. Work on getting your finances sorted out for when you meet your next girl. The finance side of things had nothing to do with it, in fact i have just paid off all debts and we went out Friday to celelebrate with her. We had said we both had time to do alot together now etc and enjoy new things. She then came around Saturday saying it was all over
marcjb Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 I don't buy what she said about there being nothing with this male friend. She is using your anger on the situation that she caused as an excuse to now test the waters with this other guy and go on a romantic get a away with him.
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