I thought I was over him...

[monje]

I thought I was over over him. Its been 1 year and 6 months since we split up and I just recently found out that he'd actually moved in with 'her' and Im devastated all over again.

When he left I asked him to leave me alone & not contact me at all. I told him I could not be his friend, but he still calls me atleast once a month. I knew he would have moved on and I thought I had moved on and put it past me but Im devatstated to find out that they've moved in together.

 

I fell like he's rejected me all over again.

 

I dont know how to get back my sanity.

[Javelin]

Wow, he's sure made a huge impact on your heart & it seems you still allow him to hold a huge portion of it as well. I'm not sure if anyone has the words you want to hear/read to get over him Monje, but maybe find a new boyfriend?

[jellybean]

Dear monje....

 

I'm sorry you are still hurting, it sometimes takes a long time to get over an ex.

 

When he left I asked him to leave me alone & not contact me at all. I told him I could not be his friend, but he still calls me atleast once a month.

 

Your sanity comes first, and you need to put an end to those once a month phonecalls from him.

 

Take care

[monje]

Originally posted by Javelin

Wow, he's sure made a huge impact on your heart & it seems you still allow him to hold a huge portion of it as well. I'm not sure if anyone has the words you want to hear/read to get over him Monje, but maybe find a new boyfriend?

 

Thanks for your reply.

 

I guess I just felt that putting it out there would help me somehow.

I have tried the new boyfriend approach but it just feels hollow. Maybe Im getting with the wrong guys or my heart just isnt in it.

 

Hopefully them moving in together means I wont hear from him any more. I changed my home number but changing my mobile phone number would be a major inconvenience.

 

I just want to get him out of my head.