Jergens92003 Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Ok, I will make it simple I met a guy at work.....We have good conversations, good eye contact, exchanges smiles and glances on passing! I think he has a girlfriend. But why do we have these flirty eye contact? What does it mean when a guy looks directly at you in your eyes when chatting. Would a guy turn his head to smile at you after he passes you by? What does it mean?!? I am not one of these intuitive women. The thing is one of his friends already asked me out and I politely declined. Please advise if it would be wise to ask him out or not!
masked_man Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 I think he has a girlfriend I think you should clarify the situation first. Why not just ask him directly? Slip the question into the conversation. "So do you have a g/f?" Or something. But why do we have these flirty eye contact? What does it mean when a guy looks directly at you in your eyes when chatting. Would a guy turn his head to smile at you after he passes you by? What does it mean?!? Well flirty eye contact is a pretty good indication he likes you. BUT, if as you suspect, he has a g/f, I'd be a little concerned about his actual motives and intentions. Time to ask a few straight questions and get a few straight answers, I think.
Author Jergens92003 Posted February 13, 2005 Author Posted February 13, 2005 Hi Masked man... Ok, I asked.....well indirectly. I said 'so what do you an the little lady have planned for valentines'. Then he responds with 'nothing really'. So with that response I assumed he has a g/f! (I am currently at work, so I just saw him and asked!) Now comes the weird part....we are in training together, and he sits next to me...thought we are the only 2 in the class plus the teacher. His foot is next to mine and I keep gently tapping it with my shoe...he does not move! What does that signal to me! What I would not give for some female intuition!!!!!!!!!!!!
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 he's probably thinkin'... "Why does this girl keep kickin' me????" Fact is... he still has a girlfriend... don't get to envolved. Chances are, he knows from the flirting and KICKING that you are interested.... leave it be... let him work things out or over with his girlfriend, and then come to you.
Hund1976 Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 He's probably just flirting with you at work to make the day more interesting. If he is looking to cheat on his girlfriend then you probably wouldn't want to get involved with a guy like that anyway.
Author Jergens92003 Posted February 14, 2005 Author Posted February 14, 2005 I guess you folks are right. He does indeed have a girlfriend of 2 yrs! I don't know whats wrong with me. We had a gorgeous conversation today....tells me things that he likes my mystery and that i am not an open book. When we speak and we make eye contact, I loose my train of thought. The thing is...I never ever felt like this over a guy! I am usually a very confident person and have no quams when chatting with guys. I don't get nervous or my heart dont race. This guy makes me weak at the knees!!!! What can I do to get over this feeling????
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 This guy makes me weak at the knees!!!! What can I do to get over this feeling???? Crutches...
Author Jergens92003 Posted February 15, 2005 Author Posted February 15, 2005 I suppose I am over analysing everything...I am just going to draw the line and quit the flirting. Act natural. Darn, he is quite a guy.
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