Lovebite Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Sorry, I know I post alot. This particular fella makes me confused. I don't how to take what he is saying is genuine or not...ok here's the story. He would always text me, call me, and invite me out to alot of places when I first met him. I declined cause my friends said he was with this girl named Vanessa. So I thought of him as a snake and I didn't talk to him. Then he calls me up crying like 2 months later, and he was talking about his issues in his life and how he needed a friend. I felt bad for him, so I became his friend and helped him through a bad situation in his life, and he even told me how him and Vanessa were on and off and how she got a new boyfriend now and now it's official she's not with him. I was kinda upset, cause he didn't tell me that before, but I figured hey be his friend, there is no harm in that. Then he started to really talk about a future with me...it was getting kinda weird. He went up to my mother and said "Meet your new son in law" These girls were mad that I was talking to him, so on Facebook he made a post saying he was going to marry me, and we all laughed it off, but then he started texting me saying that we should play this out and he should take a pic of me in a bridal dress and with a ring on my finger. It was getting to be too far. He then met another girl named Rachel. Him and Rachel acted like they were boyfriend and girlfriend all the time! It was so noticeable on Facebook. He would always say he wasn't with her, but in the meantime he was trying to date me, have sex with me etc. He was just always trying with me even with this new girl in the picture Rachel. He would say the most outlandish things to me like "You're my soulmate" "I love you so much" "You are my favorite person" "You're extraoridnary" etc. But I noticed a time where he wasn't contacing me and then he deletes Rachel off his facebook, and then I see him with a group of our friends, and he starts his lovey dovey crap. I notice when he is on the outs with Rachel he will start his lovey dovey crap with me, and act like he's my boyfriend, and just overall make it seem like he is sooo in love with me And it's weird he'll ask me weird future questions. Like he said to me "Do you see yourself having a kid or kids in 2 years?" "Drive slower! Drive like my daughter is in the backseat" "Do you see yourself settling down?" etc. I could go on and on about those questions. But see I don't know if his feelings are genuine? Or if I am just a rebound? Or an option? Cause he acted lovey dovey with me before Rachel. My friends said the reason why he denied Rachel to me was cause he was hoping to be with me. But I don't think that. Then some of my friends said I wasn't showing him enough how much I like him etc. Please share what you think. Thanks.
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 You're the back-up girl. I bet you he said the exact same things to Vanessa and Rachel. He is playing with your mind. He knows the power those words have on you, he's all talk and no actions. Soon there will be a Melissa, a Sophie, an Amanda and you will be wondering why he never makes you his main girl. He won't, the backup girl is never the main girl. 1
preraph Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 He's just trying to make your friend jealous and sorry she dumped him. He's a manipulator bigtime.
ebor Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 I think you already know his a fake, the amount of times you posted about him is enough proof. I'm sorry he's such an ass, but stop wasting your time and move on.
Leigh 87 Posted June 9, 2014 Posted June 9, 2014 This guy is such a weird loser. I wouldbe mortified and royally pissed off if a guy just proclaimed to my mother that he was going to be her son in law. Very odd and inappropriate since you weren't an eestablished couple. He is also not that into you because if he was, he'd make you his girlfriend. How many times do you need to go through men who aren't into you before you learn a lesson? ACTIONS are key. When a man is smitten there are no other girls in the picture. There are no Rachels. He would take you out on dates and he'd lock you down if you knocked his socks off.
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