alazlam Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Back story: been with live-in bf for over 2 years. I'm not happy. He is. Tried working it out but I just know this won't work in the long run. He will be totally crushed. Yikes. The lease is up, and we turned in our cancel lease piece of paper, and have been looking at more affordable apartments. At first it was because I'm going back to school and won't be able to pay as much rent, but now I'm kind of panicking because I don't think I want to sign another lease with him, and I'm running out of time to make a decision. And the thing is, he is very..umm...like I worry he can't make it on his own (i.e. he's very isolated, doesn't really have a support network or anything, doesn't have a really great paying job, and so on)? So, I don't know if I should sign a lease with him to help him move and everything and get him settled first and it'll give everybody a little more time to work things out... or just..break it to him now and let him fend for himself...I mean, I'd be happy to help but I don't know if that will be possible. And I'm not sure I'm ready to break up...but then again, will I ever be? I guess on the plus side, maybe he'd be so busy with the move it'll help him with the pain of breaking up...? I just need a swift kick in the ass, I suppose.
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