bluenote Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 I have been chasing after a girl for few weeks, and it seemed she is interested. I enjoy her company and I hoped she genuinly did too. Offlate she has been avoiding me, I asked whats going and she says nothing. Its either she not feeling too well or that she is going to farm to help with chores. Week before last Friday she texts me that she back from farm and misses me, she said she wants to see me later but that she first wants to do something about her hair and need money. I obliged and went to give her money, she said I could pick her up at eight for our night in or out, she would text when ready. Well eight came and went, so I text what is what, she replied that she still little bit bussy and she would text when ready. I waited till ten and called. I got startled because a man answered her mobile saying that he's her brother and she is stone cold out sleeping drunk too much. I waited for her to perhaps explain but nothing and its a week now. Its just beyond my understanding how someone is that way very rude. I text her yesterday just hi how are you, she replies whats your problem!!!, like I said What the?. I am bit angry with myself for allowing myself to be used like that, it just feels strange why would a person be like that. Its interesting this behavior, I decided to just stay far from her, its too complicated
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 It does not matter why people behave like that, just understand that it's a behavior you do not want in your life. If you wish to understand the behavior of each weirdo crossing your path you will spend a life time trying to understand people these people instead of being busy being happy with the right person. 1
HappyLove Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 The problem here is YOU buddy! Why on Earth would you let someone use you like this and then STILL try to date them. You seriously went to give some girl your barely dating money to get her hair done? Then she doesn't even go out with you after she supposedly gets her hair done, which by the way I doubt she even got her hair done. I'm willing to bet she used your money to buy booze for her & friends. Then she's so passed out drunk a man had to answer the phone because you kept calling. I'll never understand men like you. You chase after women who use you and skip over the average loving girls who would treat you like gold. This one will come sniffing around soon and you'll probably jump to her beck & call. If you have ANY shred of self respect you'll go NC and find yourself a woman worth your time. 1
Author bluenote Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 Thanx Happylove, yes it is true what you say. I do not understand why I trusted or believed her, perhaps my character getting the best of me sometimes. Its very hilarious funny her asking me "whats your problem" and I feel shamed over this somewhat, I mean its like a grifter asking you that after swidling you. Mind you the effort of converting my bedroom into a love gheto and all the choclates and things I had to give away shamefully the next morning. I won't tell another soul what happened.Unfortunate this is what you have to go through before you know if she a good or bad girl because they don't come with labels.
HappyLove Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Thanx Happylove, yes it is true what you say. I do not understand why I trusted or believed her, perhaps my character getting the best of me sometimes. Its very hilarious funny her asking me "whats your problem" and I feel shamed over this somewhat, I mean its like a grifter asking you that after swidling you. Mind you the effort of converting my bedroom into a love gheto and all the choclates and things I had to give away shamefully the next morning. I won't tell another soul what happened.Unfortunate this is what you have to go through before you know if she a good or bad girl because they don't come with labels. No, this is absolutely NOT what you have to go through. What you need to do is pay attention! Look for red flags. Was this girl always kind to you, generous with you? You said you were CHASING her. Sounds like she wasn't much into you from the get go but you kept chasing. A woman worth your time will not treat you like this and ask for money to get her hair done or stand you up. It will flow you will feel good and know you are appreciated. It shouldn't be a fight to get her attention. Chalk this up to a learning experience of knowing what to look for and the red flags to be aware of. MOST importantly is you don't give someone like this ANY of your attention or time!
MidwestUSA Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Mind you the effort of converting my bedroom into a love gheto and all the choclates and things I had to give away shamefully the next morning. I won't tell another soul what happened.Unfortunate this is what you have to go through before you know if she a good or bad girl because they don't come with labels. What exactly does a love ghetto look like? Can you describe it? I would have taken the chocolates off your hands.
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