Rogue007 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 (edited) What is your take on the situation? Any advice? We meet in a bar. The chemistry is hot, there's tons of sexual tension. Her friends says she's been drinking, ok. She heads home. We meet a second time. From the moment I walk into the bar we're making out heavy, I'm trying to dance. She's trying to dry fk me on the dance floor. We move to the tables. She starts grinding her crotch back and forth on my leg. My pants are literally soaked with juice. But she's adamant how she IS NOT going home with me. Ok. Meet again. Same deal. Then she tells me by text that she's a virgin (25 y.o). Since the chemistry is hot, and she looks beautiful, I tread on. The next time we meet, we're at my place. We end up having sex. Meet every couple of days for the next few weeks. Tells me she's glad I was her first. Until suddenly she says she's going to delete my number. Show's me how she's "deleting my number" How this is not like her (against her religious tradition)….Then says by text "we shouldn't see each other. I'm sorry " After deleting my number, turns out she left something at my place and didn't delete my number. We meet again. This past week I tell her I'm busy on Wed, she says ok maybe after the weekend. Say's she'll possibly be around Friday, probably not. She texted me Friday night telling me she wants to see me, Told her not tonight. She says Bye. "I texted her today asking when she's free. She say's she'll "pencil me in later in the week." Then I get a text along the lines of "she wanted to meet last night, got mad, and that it's her fault, every time we hookup she's beginning to like me more. That this is is not going anywhere. How there's no reason to waste her feelings."This is it, we shouldn't see each other. Take care."WTF. (You wanted to meet me last night at 12AM?) In my experience, women usually become more attached after sex. The relations are usually more laid back and relaxed. I've tried to go and get something to eat with her, or see a movie at the theater, talk to her etc. All the girls I've been with, I genuinely like them. Still keep in touch. We can chill and do something tomorrow. So what is your take on the situation? Anyone? I'm seriously about to cut contact. It's way too early to deal with drama, someone even questioning whether they want to see me, or a condescending attitude. It could be due to inexperience with men, a flood of emotions, or going against her religious culture. But in any case it's caused my attraction to shoot way down. Edited June 8, 2014 by Rogue007
ExpatInItaly Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 She's playing games with you. And I don't buy that she's a virgin. I think she's dealing with guilt on some level, but I also think she just likes the attention. I wouldn't bother trying to pursue anything with her. This push-pull cycle will only continue.
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Drinking, grinding herself on strangers in public places, sex with men she barely knows. Wow! I want the name of that religions! She is immature and her brain is scattered all over the place. She is 25 really? Sounds like she has the emotional maturity of a 15 year old. Spare yourself the agony and don't associate with her anymore.
todreaminblue Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 A bar , alcohol, sexual tension, and dry humping,groover rutting for all to see, doesn't seem to have a point to pursue a serious relationship.I would think you are after sex , are you after sex? I am not going to call out if she is a virgin or not, i don't know her, so I will not speculate on her sexual experience, accept to say she can probably dance while drunk , but, what is it you are really after with her you state your attraction has gone down i am assuming because she is playing games deleting numbers because you already stated that there was sexual tension and you participated in groover rutting......what is it you want to feel for her or participate in?
Author Rogue007 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 (edited) She definitely was a virgin. I've been with enough women to know it. There was blood the second time, with no period before or after. Which is why I'm partly thrown off by the whole situation. Whether we're having sex or not, I'm going to respect the woman outside of the bedroom and talk to her. Being her first experience, knowing how it might impact her outlook, my intention is to handle post-sex in the best way possible. That's it. Got me? Edited June 8, 2014 by Rogue007
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