mortensorchid Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 From the fall of 2011 - winter/spring 2012 I was going out with this guy C. He was a Bad Boy in every sense of the word. He drank, got into fist fights, etc. He, I would like to add, broke up with me. He did so, he said because every woman he'd ever been with had broken up with him for his bad behaviors and that wasn't going to happen again. True? About 5/6 months later, he got another girlfriend and has been with her ever since. The real reason he broke it off, as it seems, is because he wanted someone to take care of him and I wasn't doing it. Life is better without him. I have moved on and we have not spoken (per the girlfriend's orders I would like to add) in over 2 years and doubt we will again. Problem? The girlfriend is an absolute nightmare. She HATES me, even though we've never met. She seems to be just as bad as he is but in a different way. Instead of drinking and getting into fist fights (which she no doubt has), she demands to be the center of attention. His sister is getting married in July and she said she refused to attend it, after the sister said she did not want her to be in the wedding party. She refused to attend the wedding now because she does not like the photographer (a former girlfriend of his from years ago). In fact, she has blocked me and her on Facebook because she thinks that she and I are plotting against her. This is not true, of course, I am busy living my life doing other things and have been for YEARS since we broke up. C, for as tough as he is, seems to have spent all this time hiding behind her skirt. He no longer speaks to family or friends because of her demands. This only goes to show what I have known for years and years : Men would rather have trash than good women. Sad but true.
Woggle Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 So a trashy man gets with a trashy woman and this proves a point about all men? It sounds like he got together with his peer with the you describe him. 3
Els Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Men would rather have trash than good women. THIS is what you learned from all of that? How about: "Guys like that are bad news, including the women they attract"....? 2
Radu Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 This only goes to show what I have known for years and years : Men would rather have trash than good women. Sad but true. No, it shows 2 things : - two very messed up ppl have found eachother and they truly, truly, love each other ... one of whom might actually have mental health issues - you have a problem if you had a 'relationship' with that guy; he didn't sound like he was any good beyond a short term fling
KaliLove Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 If you stop going out with trashy boys, you'll stop being dumped for trashy girls.
MidwestUSA Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 You haven't spoken in two years. How do to know all this scoop? Let's just say you wouldn't be wondering/worrying about someone else's drama if you've truly moved on yourself. You typed 'Problem'? Whose problem is it? Leave it there.
Author mortensorchid Posted June 9, 2014 Author Posted June 9, 2014 You haven't spoken in two years. How do to know all this scoop? Let's just say you wouldn't be wondering/worrying about someone else's drama if you've truly moved on yourself. You typed 'Problem'? Whose problem is it? Leave it there. Problem - Well I guess there is no problem then, at least nothing that affects me one way or another. I know all of this because the photographer / former gf told me in an email on Facebook. We like to have a laugh about it but we're not plotting against her by any means. But yes, I agree that two crazy, trashy people have found each other, fully deserve one another, and cause a lot of problems. If there aren't any immediate they make them because they can. I feel a tad foolish (make that a lot foolish) for ever having my name attached to him, but hey, it's the past right? The crazy gf wants to make problems when none are to be had, either by me or someone else.
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