purplesoccer34 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 I have a few acquaintances in my life, many of whom I would like to get to know better and actually become friends with them. One of these acquaintances is a girl I work with every now and then, but I really don't get to see her often. The last time I saw her was maybe two months ago. Every time I see her though, she says "you should come hang out with us," or "we should make plans to hang out." I once mentioned that I might be going hiking with some friends of mine and I told her she's welcome to join and bring along any friends. She said she's definitely up for it, but alas, that hiking plan never happened. This girl has really cool friends--one of her best friends used to be my closest friend, but we don't talk anymore. I haven't talked to this girl in maybe 2 months, so would it be weird to text her and that former close friend of mine and say "hey I'm going to so and so with a friend. you guys are welcome to join us." I don't know why I'm hesitating so much lol. I think it's because I haven't communicated with them in any way for two months. I'd really like to get to know this girl's group of friends better, because I've met them all and they are all amazing people.
AF. Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Best thing to do is message her something along the lines of 'Hey how you been? Long time no talk' and work from there. I wouldn't message and her and say 'Hey remember that hiking trip...' just play it cool and make small talk. Perhaps get her number, or add her on Snapchat or Facebook if you don't have already. Build a friendship with her then eventually you will meet her other friends I'm guessing. The friendship will develop if it's meant to be. Don't come on too strong.
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