Leykis1o1 Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 i met this chick a week ago, we really hit it off. we even kissed the 1st night...all is good..so we went out last night had a good time..but i feel she is reserved..reserved for what? why would a girl be reserved with a guy she supposedly likes? i havent heard many exciting compliments from her to me, she doesnt seam that interested..yet we have a date on valentines day..im really not interested in wasting time..she has given me the impression she gets along with everyone..i dont want to be that person she is just getting along with..my clues are, she called me "nice" her kisses are mostly me initiating them, then at that point there not the kisses i feel are from attraction..they are from my side.. im about to call her up tonight and explain my feelings, but at the same time if she does have a connection and she is just taking it slow or shyness..i dont want to burn any bridges..but at the same time i dont want to take somone out for valentines day unless im her valentine..yah know!! i could do nothing and see what happens at the date tomorrow or call her tonight and explain the situtation..and if i do that what should i say ..but stil be in if she does like me cause right now im not feeling it thank you for your help
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Originally posted by Leykis1o1 i could do nothing and see what happens at the date tomorrow Give it time, and see how it goes tomorrow.
kanga Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Agreed. Go out tomorrow. Play it by ear. Have fun. Then start obsessing and freaking out over what everything meant and all she said on Tuesday.
FoShizzleMyNizzle Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 believe it or not, a lot of people feel like this. some just ride it and see what happens - best suggestion. others just say screw it cause the chemistry seems so-so. i know this... i've been in relationships where the girl (or guy for the girls out there) just has a relationship as for mere appearance. i just know if i can't have a meaningful conversation with someone, the relationship may go into a stalemate.
clynn Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 ...and also, she may jsut have a reserved personality. Meaning it takes her a while to really get to know people. The attraction might be there, but she may likely not be as open as you are. These things take time. Go out, have fun.
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 it's only been a week... waaaaay to soon to be talking about feelings and emotions.
Hund1976 Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 A lot of people are scared to open up right away, she might be afraid if she gets too into you right away then you might change your mind about her and hurt her. If she is going out with you she obviously has some interest in you. So I agree with everyone else, don't talk about it with her, just keep hanging out and see what happens.
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