Boyfriend is not giving me attention

[Sea-ds]

I am having relationship issues that has been impeding on my life. My boyfriend is not giving me enough attention. For the past week I have made 4 attempts to see him but he has turned me down each time. I confronted him about it and he said he was sorry and would make time for me. Today we had plans to see a movie and go out dancing at night. I texted him where he was and he said he woke up late and hasn't bothered communicating with me since. There are more issues than this and I feel like I am making too much of an effort for this relationship to work. He says he want to marry me but I don't see anything being brought into this relationship from him. I feel I am an accessory and it makes me sad. We have already broken up once before 2 months ago. What should I do? We are both professionals, he's 30 and I'm 27.

[Mrin]

Do you really need us to answer this? I think you know...

 

But at a minimum, go NC on the fool until he apologizes profusely and preferably with flowers.

[Rar0]

You don't need to be seen as anybody's accessory leave now.

[jbelle6]

Trust me, save your pride and end it yourself NOW.

I have taken lots of excuses for this behavior and want to punch myself in the face for it.

 

These are end times.

[mortensorchid]

He's about to dump you. He's phasing himself out of it with these lame excuses. If you don't dump him, he will.

[jbelle6]

He's about to dump you. He's phasing himself out of it with these lame excuses. If you don't dump him, he will.

 

 

I hope you listen OP! I wish I had come here with your question a few months ago!!!

[Assasda]

You should take control over your life and not be a victim.

I see that you didnt elaborate about the break up 2 monthis ago, so I think I'll assume that he broke up with you

[guest572]

I agree with others,this doesn't sound good. Forget him for a while and see if he comes round. Show him that you wont put up with this treatment and deserve better by stepping back and letting him do some of the work. If he still makes no effort to see you then i dont think you should hang around and wait for things to improve.

[Els]

Time to cut your losses, OP...

[soyou]

If love doesnt work out for the 1st time, it will never do the second time. There must have been a clear reason why it didnt out work the first time with you two.

 

You broke up for a reason and now you got back together. He doesnt even show you a little effort. I dont think this will ever work out well for you.

 

I've learnt my big lesson in the past that if love doesnt work out the 1st time, just f****ing let it go. Getting back together for the 2nd or nth time will do more damages than good.

[Michelle ma Belle]

You should take control over your life and not be a victim.

I see that you didnt elaborate about the break up 2 monthis ago, so I think I'll assume that he broke up with you

 

AMEN!!!!

 

I am insanely tired of hearing women play the victim card in relationships! UGH!

 

If you're unhappy or frustrated or hurt or disillusioned or whatever, STOP waiting around licking your wounds until HE make his next move. Aren't you worth more than that?

 

You want something? Go out and get it and that includes letting your boyfriend know what you expect from him in your relationship.

 

I've said it before countless times on here and I'll say it again here because I think you need to hear it;

 

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop and what you reinforce.

 

He's getting away with this bad-boyfriend-behavior because you're letting him.

 

Good luck.

[benzo72]

I agree with jbelle6. This doesnt look good at all. Spare yourself the pain and just drop off his radar for a while. If he wont give you the attention you deserve, there is ALWAYS another guy who will. So either he acts right, or he gets left behind! I'm sorry for what you are going through, i have been there, we are all here for you