Devastated1969 Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 Hi to all my wonderful LS friends... Just wanted to share with you that I have today reached an amazing realisation of just how lucky I am to be free of my xMM. Some of you know my backstory but for those that don't I was with a 'separated' MM who I was in a relationship with for 7 months, 4 of which he lived with me. All was going great an then he very suddenly left me and went back to his W even though we had been very very happy and totally in love throughout the relationship.. I was devastated when he left back in January. We have been NC for last 2-3 months. In that time I have been made redundant and my 2 teenage daughters are going through some difficult times with break ups and general teenage stuff. I have focused and them and they are at last turning to me for support and comfort which I am very happy about. My recent breakup has helped me immensely to empathise and relate to their pain so that is a positive outcome. Today there has been a significant event that has happened in my family that has opened some old wounds between my sister and our divorced parents and I have suddenly realised how lucky I am he left and what a difficult journey we would have had and how unlikely it would have ever worked out. There would have only been pain ahead for a lot of people and myself. I am feeling so very lucky today, happy he left, happy he has stayed NC and is committed to resolving things with his W. Now my focus is on my girls, getting another job and maybe in time finding a nice single guy :-) 6
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