air3lander Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 So heres the love story of me and my beautiful girlfriend. Im sorry its really long, but please go ahead and read 2-3 days ago we found out that my girlfriend is moving stateside within the end of this month due to her dads financial job problem.. shes about to be 17 and im abt to be 18, were going to spend senior year so far without each other, our junior year is about to end. While shes in the states, im staying in S.Korea, thats right, its an international long distance relationship. This girl is my life, i can definitely say im truly in love with her. We spend crying and talking up all night when we found out she was moving. She brings me joy and i can honestly say i want to be with her for the rest of my life. and i know some of u guys might think were too young or this is all just nonsense and i need to grow up, but i really love her to death. Weve known each other ever since we were 6 years old, our parents are super super close and we always see each other. I always had a thing for her within those years, and she too had feelings for me but we never told each other. We finally started dating october of last year. We quickly fell in love with each other and everything was right. When she dated other people before, she told me that she had feelings for me while she dated them. We really got into each other in our junior year. My week for these past 8 moths literally consists of seeing her every single time. Mondays-Fridays i would ride the bus to school with her, enjoy most of my classes with her, have lunch with her, then after school wed be together cuz of a sport, or we would ride the bus home together. Weekends our parents would plan a get together, or wed just hangout , or me and her had a volleyball/soccer game which would take the same place. When we get home we text each other through the night , were just that madly inlove with each other. This girl is my life, today is our 8 months together and i already feel like she is my life and my everything. We both understand what a long distance relationship means. We both agree that the two things are patience and trust, and we plan to keep this relationship to go on forever. We planned that i would eventually might move to stateside too, my family has been wanting to move and we are not allowed to extend here anymore and so we might move within now and my senior year. Once i get to state side, itll be easier, if its not near her , id still plan trips to see her and my family would definitely want to visit her family. If i dont move, i end up graduating and moving to the states somewhere and will be with her. Were both dedicated, young, and determined. We plan to use the great technologies of this time around to talk and see each other . (facetime,skype,messages) short and simple : i love her so much, she is my girlfriend, my bestfriend, my life, and my everything. What are ur thoughts on this? what shall i avoid and stress on within the long distance? whats the pro's in this LDR? the only pro i could think of is that she will still always be mine I want to make this work and willing to do everything and she is in the same boat. Im posting this not to second guess myself abt this whole LDR, but im posting to see what u guys think. i think our love story will be amazing, we will go through this and it would just mean that nothing can ever tear us apart once we do this. thanks for reading and sorry for making it long!
Baller25 Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 I'm sure you won't take any advice here seriously by this is my 2 cents. I'm an International student, I grew up going to International schools all over the world, so I know what international LDRs are like especially at your age. The more options a guy has the more likely he will cheat and the further a girl is the more likely she will cheat. You can carry on the relationship but never give anything up over it. It never works out.
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