Antares Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 We dated a couple of months. It was a pretty quick but intense little ... relationship. Anyways. She broke up with me last week. I could see it coming, all the classic signs. She texted me during work that we needed to talk, and wanted stop by that night. I replied by asking her if that means what I think it means and she affirmed with sorry, but yeah. She wanted to break up face to face, but honestly that seemed redundant that point. I didn't feel like waiting another 4 hours just to hear the words in person. She said she was sorry and that I was great. And I replied by saying "Okay, bye" Today when I got home I saw a bag on my door of my stuff (some shirts) that she had at her place. I intend to go about my life. But I'm wondering if I should simply send her a 'thank you' text. I'm not hoping it starts a conversation or anything...but I just don't want to be rude/petty. Even though it didn't work out, she was a very nice person. Thoughts?
elseaacych Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 Might as well. Short relationship, seems to be no hard feelings. Be careful not to let yourself get sucked in.
marcjb Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 It sounds like you are pretty accepting of this situation. Maybe reply with something alongs the lines of "Thanks, I enjoyed the time that we had together, and wish you the best." and leave it at that.
Hello201 Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 dont get sucked in , send a letter instead saying thanks for all my stuff no personal stuff in there might be easier for you as op said dont get sucked in
guest572 Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 I wouldn't bother if it were me. Silence isn't rude or petty, like leaving a bag of your stuff without a word. No you don't need to thank her. 1
lolablue17 Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 You said she is a nice person? A nice person wouldn't put a bag with your stuff by surprise without talking\texting to you first. it's a rude and blunt gesture. Also - a nice person would ask for permission to go inside your apartment. It's your private place, and the fact that she has a key gives her no legitimation to trespass. No. Don't answer. She doesn't deserve any thanks. 1
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