Isthereanybodythere Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 (edited) Hello all again! It's been one month post BU. I decided to look at my ex's facebook and found that she had changed her privacy settings so I couldn't look at her profile(I know. I have done it before and hurt myself). I decided to look further and looked at the profile of the guy she left me for(And cheated with) and found he did the exact same thing, so did her mother. I can look on pages and find their names and thumbnails of their pictures but the writing is always greyed out. None of them had their accounts set like this until me and my ex broke up. Now I know it seems like I'm looking too much into it but I'm just curious as to why they all might actually have done it. I'd appreciate anyone's feed back! Edited June 6, 2014 by Isthereanybodythere
Zahara Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Just move on from this and stop the stalking. Enough already. You are broken up. It is over. There is nothing on FB, whether they're blatantly announcing their relationship or not, it doesn't change your situation. Focus on trying to work on your self-control. "I know. I have done it before and hurt myself." Masochist. 1
Reels Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Just move on from this and stop the stalking. Enough already. You are broken up. It is over. There is nothing on FB, whether they're blatantly announcing their relationship or not, it doesn't change your situation. Focus on trying to work on your self-control. "I know. I have done it before and hurt myself." Masochist. Who's Masochist?
learning_slowly Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 People do it to make their lives easier. I was the dumpee and I did it. At least this way, you don't have to now.
Author Isthereanybodythere Posted June 7, 2014 Author Posted June 7, 2014 Your points are well made. I'll continue moving on with my life and fully concentrate on myself and my wellbeing. Things are getting easier and I honestly feel a barrier has been lifted. Thank you all.
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