francepan Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 My ex broke up with me about a year back, and then got together with this new girl who he met through Facebook. They have been dating for more than a year, but during more than half that period, he has been cheating on her with me. And when I ask if they are doing alright, he says yes they are fine. But I also know they argue a lot. I feel so tired, I want him back, but I don't like this treatment. And it doesn't help that we are colleagues too. I know he can't get over me, and just recently he actually removed his couple ring with her, but he put it back on agian after a while, and it hurts to see them together. I don't know if him removing his ring is a sign that they are ending. And he told me I should stay away from him because he can't control himself around me. He's not a player, even though he really sounds like one. But he's just a really confused guy who's afraid of commitment. He told me once that he's afraid I would leave him if we get back together. So I currently have no idea what his intentions are as he's never honest with himself. But I know right now I've got to stay away from him. Should I tell him straight that I will not have sex with him unless he wants to get together again? Please advise me? Much appreciated:)
PegNosePete Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Wow why on earth would you want a guy like this, back? He has shown you that he will quite happily cheat on his girlfriend. Why would you want to BE his girlfriend??? It makes no sense! You should tell him straight that he is a huge douchebag for cheating on his girlfriend and that you never want to see him again! Have some self respect girl! 2
mangetout Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 OP why do you want to be with a person who is commitment phobic and has no problem cheating on his girlfriend? Don't you think that he would do the same to you if you two got together..afterall he is commitment phobic like you said. I personally would keep your legs closed and tell this guy to stop being an ass to his girlfriend. Definitely work on your self respect
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