purplesoccer34 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 I just met a guy who is extremely outgoing. We both recently graduated college, but he's the type who went out partying every weekend, was at every school game, and was heavily involved in his fraternity. He has a ton of friends and talks a whole lot. I'm exactly the opposite. I never partied during college, and I didn't have a ton of friends. I go out a lot more now when I'm with my group of friends, and I'm fairly talkative around them, but otherwise, I'm very quiet and shy. This guy and I went on a date, and I know I didn't seem shy at all. The conversation flowed very easily and he said he really enjoyed talking to me. I'm good with one-on-one conversations, but I'm extremely shy around large groups of people. If this guy sees how quiet I really am around other people, is there a possibility he might not like me anymore? I always get this feeling that people are drawn to people who are more like themselves.
todreaminblue Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 i just get to know a guy on a feeling i have felt if it is strong enough.....i am not good in crowds and yes it did make a difference with a recent party animal.....he liked a more manic me...i prefer not to be manic to keep a guy......the relationship ended i need a guy to calm me down not hype me up and be bored if i am nto bouncing off the wallls....deb 1
Rar0 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Depends on what you want in a relationship. Anything can work if you are willing to make it work. Me personally, I don't want someone whose a complete opposite.
todreaminblue Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Depends on what you want in a relationship. Anything can work if you are willing to make it work. Me personally, I don't want someone whose a complete opposite. me neither...i dont want to have to fight my way to peace..ill die early because ill stick by them wrong or right.ill be completely grey in two years if have to battle with a partner i want a fair go and some understanding..i just want an equal balance and a mind who is reasonable.....and an open heart with honesty attached.......deb
MikeyBe Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 I dated a girl who was seemingly my complete opposite. My insecurities sabotaged the relationship because we were so different. I just couldn't believe she would want a serious relationship with me. Even with her directly in my face telling me so! Eventually she broke up with me and as I was upset, in the back of my head I knew I brought that on myself. Only took 1 date with another girl to realize what a a huge mistake I had made. Regardless of how different we were on the surface and how different our interests were, we got along great and I miss spending time with her. I would tell anyone in your situation not to repeat my mistake. 1
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