superb Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Why can men ignore you for days and days while you text/call....beg/plead with no response? I don't understand men and idk if I ever will.
iDrumKing Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 well I can definitely say this isn't gender specific. 1
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 well I can definitely say this isn't gender specific. Well is NC just easier for some types of people ya think? In my case, a man. I'm having trouble coping obviously.
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 yea.. girls are the same I could stop contacting a man who I didn't care about. What about a real relationship? Investment etc. loves me one day....doesn't the next.
JoeFallkon Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 I could stop contacting a man who I didn't care about. What about a real relationship? Investment etc. loves me one day....doesn't the next. been there. girls are just as evil..lol we were supposed to get married, so i think that was real, then she just turned her back on me. but fck it, life goes on
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 been there. girls are just as evil..lol we were supposed to get married, so i think that was real, then she just turned her back on me. but fck it, life goes on How long before you recovered?
David87 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 If he dumped you I don't see why you want to contact him.......
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 If he dumped you I don't see why you want to contact him....... He's done this before....plays this stubborn game and I fall right back into it. I don't know why I care so much, I wish I didn't.
David87 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 He's done this before....plays this stubborn game and I fall right back into it. I don't know why I care so much, I wish I didn't. Your relationship with him is toxic unfortunately. Stop contacting him because as you see he implemented NC, you should do the same(I know how hard it is because It happened to me too)
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 Your relationship with him is toxic unfortunately. Stop contacting him because as you see he implemented NC, you should do the same(I know how hard it is because It happened to me too) I'm very frustrated. We talked earlier and he says he loves me. We're not even fighting, he had a fit over my son being defiant is what this is all about. I've done, said...everything I can. NC Is very hard for me because me and him communicate or are together everyday almost 24/7. Its like a drug addiction.
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 I'm very frustrated. We talked earlier and he says he loves me. We're not even fighting, he had a fit over my son being defiant is what this is all about. I've done, said...everything I can. NC Is very hard for me because me and him communicate or are together everyday almost 24/7. Its like a drug addiction. Not to mention our physical relationship, we have sex at least three times a day most days. There's a ton of passion involved. I'm in love with a selfish man I guess.
David87 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Not to mention our physical relationship, we have sex at least three times a day most days. There's a ton of passion involved. I'm in love with a selfish man I guess. Yeah you are, he thinks about his own needs first and you do the opposite. He's happy and you're not....maybe it's time you start being selfish to.. @JoeFallkon of course you havent because your BU just happened.....you need at least a couple of months of NC. 1
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 Yeah you are, he thinks about his own needs first and you do the opposite. He's happy and you're not....maybe it's time you start being selfish to.. @JoeFallkon of course you havent because your BU just happened.....you need at least a couple of months of NC. I'm not sure how I can be more selfish, its not in my nature. I'll probably be on LS a lot more now getting advice and sharing things though. I don't have a ton of friends now, he was my best friend/lover combo. I'm so emotionally fkd.
David87 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 I'm not sure how I can be more selfish, its not in my nature. I'll probably be on LS a lot more now getting advice and sharing things though. I don't have a ton of friends now, he was my best friend/lover combo. I'm so emotionally fkd. That means he dumped you...correct ?
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 That means he dumped you...correct ? Yeah, he broke up with me
David87 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Yeah, he broke up with me Well my dear you wont like what i'm gonna say. . . Stop contacting him and please don't be his doormat. 1
Author superb Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 Well my dear you wont like what i'm gonna say. . . Stop contacting him and please don't be his doormat. You're right. It's hard but I can get thru it. Thanks 1
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