Author ain5053 Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 Well I don't feel weird calling someone my boyfriend after a month. It's not a marriage proposal. I don't see why he is comfortable having you pretty much LIVE at his place... yet he won't call you his girlfriend? ? This indicates to me that he may be really into you. However: Late last year I practically lived with a guy I was not into. I only viewed hum as a good friend with benefits. I was at a weird place in my life though. I NORMALLY never live with a guy for a month whom I have no romantic feelings towards! !!!!! Just be careful. Please. He is probably smitten with you as you purport him to be....... However, there is a small chance that with the right girl he would be happy to call her his girlfriend..OR, It could purely be a workplace thing..... If it is against company policy to date Co workers. ...... Well, I can't say that he won't call me his girlfriend, because it just never came up. I haven't asked and there was never a situation where he had to say "this is my girlfriend". So maybe he does consider me that, but I wouldn't know... And it's not that our workplace has a dating policy, but he is my lead and I am trying to get promoted, so it wouldn't look good if people found out as it would make me look like I have an advantage against the other people who are looking to be promoted, even though it has nothing to do with our relationship.
Author ain5053 Posted June 9, 2014 Author Posted June 9, 2014 Hey all! So this weekend I was going to bring up the talk, and one night as we were going to bed after having some drinks that night, he said "I kind of like you, you know". I asked him to elaborate. "Kind of like you" turned into "I really like you", and when I asked him to tell me more he said he is just afraid to open up because it makes him seem "vulnerable." Then he admitted that he "likes me way more than he probably should" and how weird that is, adding "do you know how picky I am with women????" - That is how surprised he was that he has fallen for me. When I brought up the relationship talk and where is this going, his response was, "We ARE in a relationship silly!" I never asked if that meant we were boyfriend/girlfriend - but I assume it does? We talked about it briefly the next morning too, and he seemed very genuine and very intimate, then we laughed how out of all the times we could have had this talk, we had when we were both sleepy and after drinks (although I was completely sober). Soo. yeah, mean are strange!!! I guess I was supposed to just assume we were in a relationship without discussing it.
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