sarah1268 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Hey guys, So I've just started seeing this guy (probably had about 4- 5 dates) and he has asked me to go with him to a mates party this Saturday. Now I have a few concerns about it. Firstly, I have no idea where I stand with him. We've Had sex a few times etc but we haven't even said we're exclusive and we met online so that's even more weird. I guess I'm concerned how he's going to introduce me to his friends etc. Secondly, I'm going to Europe for 7 weeks at the end of the month and he had been aware of it all along. I don't want to be exclusive with him before I leave but at the same time I don't want his mates to see me as that kind of girl, I don't know bad timing I guess. I do like him, and him inviting me to a party is a good sign but I guess I'm apprehensive about going. What you guys think? Should I talk to him about my concerns before the party or not go at all??
David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Yes talk to him first, tell your concerns, be honest and then decide if it's ok to go or not . 1
todreaminblue Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 I agree with david go the honesty route and work it out from there.Follow your heart
stillafool Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Good grief it's only a party. Can't you just look at it as date #6, without a label and enjoy the party? Besides you don't seem to want to be exclusive anyway. Just go and have fun.
d0nnivain Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Stop over thinking it. Go to the party. Have fun. Address the Europe trip / exclusivity later.
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