Skerple Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Hey guys I'm in a real bind and I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I just got back together for the third time, the first time lasted a few months then the second lasted a day before I broke up with him again ( I am the one who broke off the relationship both times) and now we got back together again a few days ago and I am already regretting it, I don't know what it is, I am attracted to his personality but nothing else, he is very sweet kind and caring, but I'm just not physically attracted to him and I'm just generally uncomfortable when I'm with him in a date kind of situation even if we are just hanging out, I feel like I made a huge mistake agreeing to be in the relationship again and I want back out, but I have absolutely no idea how to go about breaking up with him and breaking his heart for a third time after a few days, please help me on how to go about this, we will have our last year of high school to go through soon so avoiding him afterward is almost impossible, please help I'm desperate and stupid!
David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Dump him now but this time for good because you're wasting your time and his time. Do it face to face and try to explain that things dont work for you....
Author Skerple Posted June 5, 2014 Author Posted June 5, 2014 Dump him now but this time for good because you're wasting your time and his time. Do it face to face and try to explain that things dont work for you.... But how should I go about breaking up with him?
David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 But how should I go about breaking up with him? Be honest, that's the best way to do it. Tell him you are not happy anymore and that you tried 3 times but in the end it didn't work. Me him in a public place, like a park or at a coffee shop.
Amy74 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Oh--I'm so sorry. I've done it--and there is no easy way out. I used to think...okay, I'll just wait until he does something stupid and then break up. But then it's like...I'm going to look like an idiot breaking up with him for something so small and stupid. Just do it and do it now. "I made a mistake getting back together with you--I know that sounds horrible and I'm sorry that I did this again." Then get with your girlfriends--support and companionship will hopefully keep you from continuing this mistake.
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