addyBroken Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 ..I got back with my ex for the second time 9 months ago. Two weeks ago she said I think its over. We talked and I said if you want it over take your door key and your never see me again. But after a few hours she said she wants to go slow and give us one last chance. But here's the problem. I haven't seen her in over two weeks and she just doesn't reply to my messages anymore. When we got back I told her I really wanted to have a baby. She was all for it. But after we get back from Iceland. As we neared Iceland she seemed to be cooling to the idea of having a baby. A few months later we had a fight and I said she only used me to go to Iceland and that shes been dangling the baby thing for to long. The last 4 years. She has three kids herself. Who I love to bits. Guys I love this women with all my heart and I know she feels something. But she is so stubborn. How can I get though to her. I know longer want to be a father. I just want her. I would make an honest women of this girl in a heart beat if, if I knew she wouldn't turn me down lol Her family ant all that keen on me. I'm just lost on how to fix this
Author addyBroken Posted June 5, 2014 Author Posted June 5, 2014 sorry for the first post without going though the boards and helping others. Off to give my insight where I can. One more thing. Would know contact work ? was thinking of just leaving her to it for a week to 10 days then try and ask her out for a meal or something ? So scared of losing her.
stillfiguringitallou Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 People don't change their desire to be a parent because of a break up. You are convincing yourself you don't want more children because you THINK that is why she left. Truthfully women rarely agree to have more children and then just forget about it. Something else is wrong here. Try to figure that piece out first. 1
Author addyBroken Posted June 5, 2014 Author Posted June 5, 2014 People don't change their desire to be a parent because of a break up. You are convincing yourself you don't want more children because you THINK that is why she left. Truthfully women rarely agree to have more children and then just forget about it. Something else is wrong here. Try to figure that piece out first. I made her feel that all I want is a baby from her and sex. Its not the case. Just after are first break up I was just waiting for her to do something like this. I know she loves me. How can I win her back. That's all I want. I love her. Any ideas on how I can win her back ???
stillfiguringitallou Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 She is making excuses. I'm sorry but she is. And trust me You don't want her back
Elle1975 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Yes, unfortunately it's over. You shouldn't have to plead for another try. That's a horrible thing to say "she only used me to go to Iceland and that shes been dangling the baby thing for to long" That alone is reason enough to walk away.
Author addyBroken Posted June 6, 2014 Author Posted June 6, 2014 Am I likely to hear from her again I said that comment because I the Xmas before I help her out with gifts for the kids and it cost me 1200. That Xmas I wasn't even welcome for an hour. Thats why we broke up the first time. I havent heard from her since sunday Maybe she just needs space
Elle1975 Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Am I likely to hear from her again I said that comment because I the Xmas before I help her out with gifts for the kids and it cost me 1200. That Xmas I wasn't even welcome for an hour. Thats why we broke up the first time. I havent heard from her since sunday Maybe she just needs space If she owes you money, that's what the small claim court is for.
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