sarahjaneb Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 I'm doing the 30 days of no contact what so ever with my ex In order to try and win him back. He broke up with me but I know he still loves me and it wasn't an easy decession for him he was crying while he was breaking up with me. The break up was my fault I let my friends get too involved in the relationship I always focused on what he was doing wrong and never focused on what I was doing wrong. I dont blame him for his decession. I tried saying sorry but his mind was made up. He text me a few days after the break up and to be stuck in twotwo minds about the whole thing but then decided it was for the best so I started the 30 days of no contact. On day 1 he texting me saying "whhat's up?" I ignored then later he said "what's up what are you uo to?" Im now on day 18 of no contact and he hasn't tried to reach out to me since day 1. When these 30 days are over should I get in contact even if he hasn't tried to takk to me again? Or should I try to move on because if he really cared surely he wouldve tried harder?
NC-Thomas Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Please read this guide: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/462922-if-you-want-them-back He was just sending you breadcrumbs, once you stop NC, you will be going back to day one you broke up. All the way back into limbo, trust me I went back there. All the pain returned. Keep in NC for your own good, if he really wants you back, he will let YOU know. The possibility of you changing his mind after 30 days of no contact is limited, contacting him will just appear to him that you are still there for him. He dumped you, put you at the curb as a bag of garbage. He told you " I don't want you in my life ", so be out of his life. They have LOST you. Be gone. If he genuinely wants you back, you will know. BUT DON'T GO AND WAIT FOR IT! NC is a method to move on in the first place, not to get your ex back... 1
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