Lisa100small Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 My ex of about 7.5 months who is also in one of my classes.....well I saw him last night in class. Last time I saw him about 2 weeks ago, he criticized the way I was dressed (kinda sexy yet still professional, I got a few looks and felt great, I just wanted a litle change since I have to wear scrubs at my job). Well, I walked in class and he said Miss Jones( he flirts that way by calling me by my last name), I said Hey John and he patted the seat in front of him, it was empty. I said "I have to study, I have a test. I walked to the othetr side of the room and sat behind some of my friends. He whispered my name once during the lecture. Afterwards, I got up to leave and he said "Miss Jones" again.........five times. I was walking away and he kept calling me. Ok, WHO THE HELL DOES HE THINK HE IS? After criticizing me and oh yeah, being an a**h*** when we were together ( I broke up with him) and not contacting me for 6 months then all of the sudden emailing me to see 'how I was doing and saying he missed me", I dont want him! What the hell is up with this? Cant he take a damn hint. I felt no desire to talk to him or sit by him. He treated me so bad. So my question is, I have been indifferent to him but civil and last time I said he called me from across the hall when I was looking ......attractive (see above), he started criticizing me and i felt stupid and urt. So I wasnt gonna let him do that again. WHY is he doing this? I am trying to hard to move on and stay focused on my job and school (I'm 22 and he's 24) and he keeps trying to pop in my life. When we were togetehr he was always too "busy" for me, so what is the difference now? I feel like he still doesnt care about me but wants to see if he can use me again. I DONT THINK SO> Please give me some advice on how I should deal with him and why has he suddenly taken andn interest in me , especially after criticizing me, IN FRONT OF HI FRIEND, when I did not deserve it.
CoolAunt Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 I can't guess what his motives are but his actions seem like those of someone who has no good on their mind. He's a jackass. Heehaw!
joeyNoelle Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 Yeh this guy sounds like a real waste of time..my advice don't deal with him.. don't answer his emails..don' aknowledge hs presense in class.if they don't appreciate you when they have you..don't give them a second thought..he isn't that special.
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