will_woman Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 I am feeling upset right now. I have posted on my story before............ My a**h*** husband cheated on me about 1 year ago. He even initiated the divorce on the annulity as ground. And he put up a pack of lies in his statement. Of course, I contested the petition and he has to withdraw it. Then he started keeping quiet and not even bothered to look for the lawyer to see how to get about the mess. He is now staying in another country with that woman. Then a few days ago, i called up his mother. I wanted to ask the mom to talk some senses into the son. Who knows...the mom was yelling over the phone. She even accused me of the one who did not want the divorce and scolded me for clinging onto the son. She even said that "IF I were you....i would look for a better man than him!!" She even said that couples breaking and patching up is a norm.....I should be more open-minded..... Gosh...she is distorting the truth. How I can sign the petition when the son accuse me when he was the one who started an affair??? And also, the son is owing me compensation now......refuse to pay up. He is hiding in another country.....
Nine Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 Hi Will_Woman, I'm sorry that you are in this situation. This man sounds like a coward. It's not surprising that his mother took the stand that she did. He got his beliefs from someone and my guess is, it is her. I have to say that I don't have much advice for the legality of your situation. I just wanted to acknowledge your post and let you know that we are listening. Keep venting if you need to. Peace, Nine
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