brandon26003 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 I met my ex a year ago. We dated for a month and she broke things off because she said she no longer felt a connection. Turns out that soon thereafter she went back to her ex that she swore she would never go back to because he treated her bad. A few months after that I accidentally sent her a friend request on facebook. We started talking again and she said that they had recently broken up. We made plans several times and she always broke them. A few weeks later she is back with him. Approximately 2 weeks ago she texted me out of the blue asking me how I was doing. The timing was odd because that day I broke things off with a girl I was dating. She didn't know about it because I never listed it on facebook. I asked her upfront what her intentions were. I told her that if she had any intention of doing the same thing she did the last 2 times to not even waste my time. We had a date scheduled and she cancelled because her son had a make-up baseball game. I was being a goof on purpose to see if she would pursue me. I told her that if she wanted to try again that she needed to prove that she wants to be with me. Since then she has almost always made first contact and seems to be trying to prove that she really wants to try again. We have another date scheduled for Friday. Let's see if this gets cancelled again. Any thoughts on what her intentions may be?
marcjb Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Who cares what her intentions are, she has already shown them multiple times now. 6
DArtagnan2 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 I am just confused why you are even giving her a shot? I guess third time is a charm? Or 3 strikes and she's out? or... I dont know, man. I wouldn't be fooling with her. 1
joeLove Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 You are the backup ... until she finds something better (or the ex comes back again into the picture) and you will be history. You are the nice guy who catches her, when she falls. She will never respect you ... I think you should move on. Plenty of fish in the ocean. 2
Keke1 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 You put your foot down so this will be the last time for her. She seems like she's going to milk you. Make her pay for the date and see how that goes. Then go back and forth until you think things are real. I would stand her up lol. Seriously though. Don't waste time you can't get it back. 1
Omei Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 How do you accidentally FB friend someone unless you're scoping their timeline to start with lol Anyway you already know it doesn't work between you two. Seems like yall are just getting together because on both ends someone else didn't work out, you've been ex's for quite a while now suddenly there's contact again? Yes....I call classic backtracking. If she cancels because of her child again, just remember her kid comes first it has nothing towards your relationship.
Charmander Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 I am just confused why you are even giving her a shot? I guess third time is a charm? Or 3 strikes and she's out? or... I dont know, man. I wouldn't be fooling with her. Always follow the three strike rule!
Frank2thepoint Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Any thoughts on what her intentions may be? To play you like a fiddle. 3
bubbaganoosh Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Any thoughts on what her intentions may be? Yeah, she got dumped and hates to be without, so your the old stand by and you'll do in a pinch but when the next Mister Wonderful shows up, your going to be put back in the dumper, then brought back out, cleaned up and start all over again. Time to find another casino and maybe you'll have better luck. 2
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