solostand Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 So I'm still with MM, been a year and a half now. Things are going good although his BW has been slightly suspicious, nothing serious. Anyway, I have this ex-husband who can be a real ******* when he's drunk. Last week he phoned me three times within half an hour demanding I go out with him, he was drunk. Then he said 'never mind, I'll just phone MM, I'm sure HE KNOWS WHERE YOU ARE!!' I didn't think he'd have the guts but MM'S phone number from the book, called and got the wife! He asked for MM and she said he wasn't home. This would be the time and spill all his suspicions but he didn't for some reason. The next morning MM Called me up and asked if I knew a man named my ex husband with a thick English accent, because he called last night. Of course my MM knew who he was. So anyway I was quite upset and he said 'don't worry, we'll work through it'. Also, I'm an artist and two weeks ago I did a sculpture of him standing on a beach. When i showed him the final product he was very impressed. I jokingly asked if he wanted it, like how could he sneak it home. And he actually said 'can i really have it, you'll really let me have it' he was all excited to have it so I sent it home with him. He said he'd find a way to explain it.
ConfusedMarriedOW Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Lol both my xMM and I are artists and were always thinking of ways to send our work to eachother. Sigh. It is so nice to have that give and take. Your ex sounds dangerous
Speakingofwhich Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 solostand! I've wondered how you are and how things turned out! Update? 1
Author solostand Posted June 4, 2014 Author Posted June 4, 2014 Well I wasn't as strong as I thought I was. I tried to go NC while he was down south but I caved. When he got home I saw him the next day and pretty well every day since. I'm waiting for his wife to find out because he does nothing to hide our relationship in public anymore.
Speakingofwhich Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Well, I understand. I've been through that myself in the past year. It's quite a journey. We are here for you anyway, to process whatever you need to. It seems as though your MM's wife will probably become aware of the state of things sooner or later. Also, you seem to be prepared, as well as can be, in that you realize it'll probably happen.
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