Author sweetandsour Posted June 4, 2014 Author Posted June 4, 2014 Mrin...it's not as simple as that, there has been open flirting and disrespect on her behalf, pet names and crossing boundaries on his and then contact when it was agreed there was to be none. I was ready to walk away before I came on here, because of the reasons I have already posted. I am not insecure, he has other female friends and I don't have any problems with contact there, however this is completely different, It's hurtful, disrespectful, inappropriate and is not something I want in our relationship. I don't think or feel I'm being anything but honest and true to what is acceptable to me.
Mrin Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Mrin...it's not as simple as that, there has been open flirting and disrespect on her behalf, pet names and crossing boundaries on his and then contact when it was agreed there was to be none. I was ready to walk away before I came on here, because of the reasons I have already posted. I am not insecure, he has other female friends and I don't have any problems with contact there, however this is completely different, It's hurtful, disrespectful, inappropriate and is not something I want in our relationship. I don't think or feel I'm being anything but honest and true to what is acceptable to me. Ok. I'll take your word for it that this has been productive. I just find it somewhat sad that you characterized your two year relationship with him as "we are great together and always talk things through" in your OP and now you are ready to walk. Or at least it sounds like you are. And I see multi page firestorm posts with all caps above and I can't help but think that we've done you a disservice. But to each their own and I wish you well! Mrin 1
Author sweetandsour Posted June 4, 2014 Author Posted June 4, 2014 You haven't done me a disservice, I had a solution in my head before I came and posted on here, however when you're so closely involved in something, sometimes it can be good to ask questions of others, just in case you're missing something or over reacting to a situation. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and it would devastate me to not be with him, it really would but this is something I can't ignore because of the way it's making me feel. If he chooses to remain in contact with someone who I feel and he has agreed, is flirting with him and trying to keep some sort of a relationship going, to obviously work her way back in, in spite of knowing about me, then what choice do I have? 3
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