AnEnormousPanda Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 (edited) Hello all, just lookin' to get some direction on the situation. There's a girl at a business I frequent whom I've developed a bit of curiosity for. She and I have shared brief converesations and mild flirting (i'm not skilled at flirting in any way or form) while my order is being completed and I've managed to get her number under the pretense that I will bring her to the amusement facility at which I work. The first time that I texted her inviting her to go she was unable to because she was working but agreed to raincheck the occasion for another undetermined day. Nothing seemed to change when I went back in to the establishment at which she works. A week or so later we were making small talk and she even volunteered a day that she had off of work when i mentioned I was off which in my mind seemed like she was possibly seeking another invite. She mentioned she was gonna text me the following day (when we were both off of work) but not having gotten back to me by the late afternoon I decided to text her. She didn't reply which isn't the end of the world I recognize that everyone misses a text every once in a while and I probably should have called in the first place instead of being lame and texting. I continue to return to the business (the place is great at what they do and happens to be on my way to work a stone throw from my house). A couple of weeks pass, I still see her and everything seems to be fine she doesn't seem to be dodging me or anything which would probably be easy to do at this place. She and I still make small talk and discuss details about each others lives in brief passing. Soft complains about how she still has to come into the place that I work but we both always seem to be working. Today while discussing what it is that we see ourselves doing in the future again she volunteers without prompting that she has tomorrow off. This time I have to work but tell her this and we part ways. Later in the day I decided that it would be best just to nail down a day to go together and decided to text her again. Have not heard back and am now concerned that my worst fear has come true and I'm that one weird guy that frequents a business seemingly to see a young lady that isn't actually interested in him he's just completely oblivious to where the line is pertaining to good friendly service and attraction/flirting. I'm aware that the fact may be that she actually isn't interested in me at all and just wants to go to the amusement facility I work at to have a good time which would be fine too. I guess what it is that I'm asking for is an opinion on how to proceed;should I stop inviting her? She says she wants to hang out but her actions speak otherwise. I suppose that i'm also seeking some reassurance that one of my greatest fears hasn't come true and I've not turned into that creepy oblivious guy. Because that would mean I'd have to stop going in there which would be really unfortunate. Thanks in advance for the advice and or opinions I'm hopefully about to receive. -Panda (Just realized I wrote a novel so my apologies for that.) Edited June 3, 2014 by AnEnormousPanda Wrote a novel
d0nnivain Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 From what you have written I can't tell if she likes you or just wants to go to the facility where you work. Since her behavior toward you when you stop at her work hasn't changed, you are not annoying her. Keep negotating until you can manage to take her to the amusement place, & get more info while interacting with her there, when she's not at work.
DArtagnan2 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 have you ever asked her about the fact that she said she would go, yet didn't reply to the text?
preraph Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Well, she definitely wants to go. Whether it has anything to do, in her mind, with a date, who knows. Is she going alone or insisting on bringing friends? That will give you the answer. If she's going with you alone, I'd say it's a date. You're having a hard time syncing your schedules for this, so that is something you might consider because if it did work out, it might become a logistics nightmare trying to see each other.
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