sonic323 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 So heres a quick story and the question will follow up... I was in a relationship with this girl and I bought her a Necklace with a matching ring... I told her Ill give the ring to her on her Birthday... Before her bday she broke up with me on April 1st 2013... I stayed NC in till December when she contacted me to ask me a question... After that i found out she was interested in a friend of mine so i didn't talk to her after that... They started dating and i just found out they broke up about a week ago... I want her to contact me some how but have no clue how to do it... So I was just wondering should I mail her the ring and hope she contacts me... Till this day she wears the necklace occasionally.. Any question please don't hesitate to ask... Oh and BTW I am not over her But I do want to stay NC In till she contacts me Good idea or bad idea?
stillfiguringitallou Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Sending her the ring is contact. It is also trying to manipulate her into contacting you. I wouldn't do it - you're inviting more pain
David87 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 It's a bad ideea, don't do it. She dumped you so she has to contact you without manipulation.
JustC Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Pawn (or craigslist or ebay) the ring and don't worry about it.
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Terrible idea. Why on earth would you give a girl who broke up with you and dated your friend a ring? Have some self respect, man!!
David87 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Wow. I am just shaking my head in disbelief on this one. The girl not only dumped your ass, but started shagging your mate. Wow. You are either completely blind and teetering on retardation or are so deep, you can't see out of your hole of despair. Your passive aggressiveness deserves a standing ovation. You want to mail her, not give her in person, but send a postman to deliver your Cracker Jack ring in hopes she contacts you. Brother, you have no game. You have no life. You are a schmuck. I have no questions to ask. I just want you to see a psychotherapist immediately. You, my friend, are messed up. I don't think you need to be so hard on him. He's just a little desperate....
Natsume21 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 I don't think you need to be so hard on him. He's just a little desperate.... A little. Dude, I can see his desperation from space. Dude, I know you miss your ex, but here's the reality of life...with young girls, relationships don't last. Statistically they tend to jump more into their 20s than their 30s. So instead of you trying to message her in hopes of reconciliation, accept that girls can be like this, and take these statistics and have some fun with it. 1
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