jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Let's be honest, him doing that and being a jerk makes you want him even more, though you don't realize it. Um, in my experience, guys who get quality a$$ don't speak this way in front of a date or have to walk around with semi's. Good luck with your PUA techniques.
jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Squats separate the men from the boys. That's my guess. He has zero respect for her, and he's demonstrating that, because he can. I can assure you, boobies never get old. I still look at them like it's my first time seeing them and I'm 35 years old. I LOOK AT THEM TOO!!! I like women as well. It's the comments he makes that just sound silly, mostly cause he knows they hurt her feelings. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 I've never had a boyfriend like this before, he will regularly check out girls in front of me, most of the time he will say 'oh she has a great butt', 'she's hot' or 'daaamn' something along those lines. He knows that this makes me uncomfortable. Most of the times, I try to ignore it, but sometimes I just get really pissed off. Is this something I should just be able to accept because it's just who he is? He says all guys do it, he's just honest. i.e. this morning I was asking if he talks to one of his colleagues, and he just says 'not often but damn she has a good body for her age' and I was like wtf, I don't want to know that.... I just want to know, am I overreacting or too emotional? Is this behavior normal and should be tolerated? I'm thinking I should just let it go through one ear and out the other.... Um, missmiss123, sorry to say this but between this thread and the other, your boyfriend sounds like a complete jackass. Why are you with him again???
jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 You should hear the comments guys make when we are not with our gf's. The OP's boyfriend is a douchebag, no way around it. Thing is, she is still having sex with him, despite his total lack of respect for her, so he has no reason NOT to be a douchebag. If ladies would start putting these goons in their place, there wouldn't be so many guys like him. I know, SHE IS, I read her previous posts, she gets attached very easily and needs to ditch this guy and work on herself. I know she can do better. Reading the full story of this guy doesn't paint a pretty pic. And I said in my first post that it's who she allows him to be with her, so we do agree. I see no issue with him making comments to his buddies. I know what goes on there. Just most guys grow to realize when they're "saying the quiet part loud and the loud part quiet" when they are with a lady.
jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 You should hear the comments guys make when we are not with our gf's. The OP's boyfriend is a douchebag, no way around it. Thing is, she is still having sex with him, despite his total lack of respect for her, so he has no reason NOT to be a douchebag. If ladies would start putting these goons in their place, there wouldn't be so many guys like him. I know, SHE IS, I read her previous posts, she gets attached very easily and needs to ditch this guy and work on herself. I know she can do better. Reading the full story of this guy doesn't paint a pretty pic. And I said in my first post that it's who she allows him to be with her, so we do agree. I see no issue with him making comments to his buddies. I know what goes on there. Just most guys grow to realize when they're "saying the quiet part loud and the loud part quiet" when they are with a lady. And oh my God, you should hear some women lol. Dirty.
ascendotum Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Um, missmiss123, sorry to say this but between this thread and the other, your boyfriend sounds like a complete jackass. Why are you with him again??? He's probably hawt and or gives it to her good in bed. Beyond the fact that he should be subtle about looking at other women, if he knows its annoying her, then it makes him a bit of a dick for continuing to do it blatantly. Sure he is enjoying the eye candy but he is also getting his kicks from upsetting his gf,and I guess its along the lines of rattling her insecurity 1
jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 He's probably hawt and or gives it to her good in bed. Beyond the fact that he should be subtle about looking at other women, if he knows its annoying her, then it makes him a bit of a dick for continuing to do it blatantly. Sure he is enjoying the eye candy but he is also getting his kicks from upsetting his gf,and I guess its along the lines of making her insecure. I agree. I think he likes it too. And I so want to see a pic of both LOL!!! Maybe we'd understand better!!! OP, he better be H & H, Hot and **** I'll let you figure out the second H.
Tayla Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Most guys that have come off with those comments, I have been able to concur with them or at the least, Go...Hmmm...is that what you see as beauty? Sorry that the OP though garners the emotional brunt of such comments, is it how he says it? Does he use comparisons? I mean its one thing to say, wow that lady has beautiful eyes, as opposed to saying, That chick is far better then you dear. Now that is the difference in a gent and a man who hasn't learned social politeness . Technically I get worried when a guy doesnt comment, I encourage a guy to be open on preference and share his viewpoint. I don't encourage though the rude,lewd and cat calling comments. Objectifying is not the same as adoring or admiration.
jbelle6 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Most guys that have come off with those comments, I have been able to concur with them or at the least, Go...Hmmm...is that what you see as beauty? Sorry that the OP though garners the emotional brunt of such comments, is it how he says it? Does he use comparisons? I mean its one thing to say, wow that lady has beautiful eyes, as opposed to saying, That chick is far better then you dear. Now that is the difference in a gent and a man who hasn't learned social politeness . Technically I get worried when a guy doesnt comment, I encourage a guy to be open on preference and share his viewpoint. I don't encourage though the rude,lewd and cat calling comments. Objectifying is not the same as adoring or admiration. From the original post it seems like he's more the "nice a$$" type than the "wow that lady has beautiful eyes" type.
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