fifipheebs Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 i had been getting close to a guy and i thot he had feelings based on his interaction and flirtations with me, that led to start having feelings for him. each time he initiates conversation thru text and i end them first (still trying to not be too easy for him) or he starts to really lay on the inneundo he will call me "sis". Has anyone else had this experience? Is he trying to keep me at a distance bcuz he doesn't want the friendship to evolve into more or is he unsure whether or not i would be against moving it forward therefore calling me sis to neutralize things?
d0nnivain Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 I have no idea why he calls you sis. It's an odd thing to do. You will have to ask him -- not text him -- ask him what he means by that. The "friend zone" is more a place women put men than the other way around. You cannot build a relationship through text, nor can you successfully play hard to get in that forum. people who don't respond simply come off looking rude or completely uninterested. 2
Author fifipheebs Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 You cannot build a relationship through text, nor can you successfully play hard to get in that forum. people who don't respond simply come off looking rude or completely uninterested. i definitely dont end conversation by not responding. i agree, it is rude and i do not like it when people do it to me, therefore, i do not do it to others. i will however mention that i have to go and sign off. that being said, this guy at times will not respond to some of my messages, whether he feels there is no need to reply as my text came off as a statement and not a question. but it is rude like you said. he does not call me anymore. i did get regular phone calls from him in the past, however, that has stopped and i am uncertain as to why.
d0nnivain Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 You will have to ask him why. Maybe he concluded you weren't interested. Maybe somebody he liked better came along. Based only on what you have shared, there is no way for LS to guess what he was thinking. 1
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