jt27 Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 I am over 2 months post break up. I have started looking online at OLD sites but haven't put up a profile. I think I need to go on some dates to get myself back out there. Just as I start thinking this...one falls into my lap. This past weekend, my friend's sister was out celebrating her birthday so I decided to join. Her and I have always been friends but not very close and really didn't talk much to each other except when she is visiting her brother. I'll admit I had a bit of a crush on her like 4 years ago or so. She knows my situation regarding just broken up with my ex 2 months ago and asked me how I was doing. I told her "good" and we went on and had a blast that night. Anyway, at the end of the night, we are saying our goodbyes and she lays a big one right on the lips and tells me to call her. She's never kissed me ever. I am a little confused here. They timing is just messed up. I like her, I always have. She's funny, outgoing, pretty. How should I approach this? Any suggestions? I have an idea but am open to others. I would love to hear from some ladies here...what exactly do you think she is getting at? Thanks.
Standard-Fare Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 I assume she was drunk when she kissed you, but how drunk? If it's possible that was a sloppy, alcohol-fueled move that she won't remember, or will just laugh off later, then you should apply some skepticism. But if she had her wits about her, you should take that as a strong sign of interest. A kiss on the lips is pretty direct. If that's the case, call her soon! Set something up where just the two of you hang out.
Frank2thepoint Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Anyway, at the end of the night, we are saying our goodbyes and she lays a big one right on the lips and tells me to call her. She's never kissed me ever. I am a little confused here. They timing is just messed up. I like her, I always have. She's funny, outgoing, pretty. How should I approach this? Any suggestions? I have an idea but am open to others. She kissed you. She likes you. You like her. What's the problem? Oh, you need advice on how to find your balls and ask this girl out? You're on your own on that one, because I'm not gonna help you find your balls. But seriously, ask her out. Not through Facebook/Instagram, not with a text, not through your friend (unless to get her number). Call her up. But first, find your balls. 2
DArtagnan2 Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 I am not a female, nor am I that noticable of signs when women throw them my way, but a kiss on the lips, I would think I would catch that sign. call her.. 2
Author jt27 Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 We had been drinking but I am pretty sure she had her wits about her. She can definitely hold her booze. I just don't want her to be a rebound. Or then again, maybe she is looking for that? I don't know til I ask huh? This just isn't how I envisioned myself re-entering the dating scene.
Author jt27 Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 She kissed you. She likes you. You like her. What's the problem? Oh, you need advice on how to find your balls and ask this girl out? You're on your own on that one, because I'm not gonna help you find your balls. But seriously, ask her out. Not through Facebook/Instagram, not with a text, not through your friend (unless to get her number). Call her up. But first, find your balls. Hahaha. Thanks for being so blunt. Appreciate that. I have balls, don't worry. If I didn't have other ties to this girl, I wouldn't be on here asking for suggestions. I know how to ask a girl out. Just looking for suggestions on approaching a potentially tricky situation. 1
FitChick Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 If you have mutual friends, treat her very, very well. 1
Frank2thepoint Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Hahaha. Thanks for being so blunt. Appreciate that. I have balls, don't worry. If I didn't have other ties to this girl, I wouldn't be on here asking for suggestions. I know how to ask a girl out. Just looking for suggestions on approaching a potentially tricky situation. Don't complicate it. Just ask her out, get to know each other, and see where it goes. If she kissed you, that means you made her laugh and feel special enough. Keep the momentum. Real simple, not tricky.
Author jt27 Posted June 3, 2014 Author Posted June 3, 2014 If you have mutual friends, treat her very, very well. That won't be an issue. I treat everyone very well, especially women. All my friends know how well I treated my ex.
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