joel Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 since i asked this gal out i think i now what the class mates in my class are laughing about- i seen some of the girls faces and even guys faces smile when they see me checking out and looking at other girls-maybe its b/c i stare for so long hehehe. i think the gossip of the girls have spread so fast b/ c i get a lot of giggling smiles from classmates and ppl i thought i would not get it from. also b/c maybe b/c the girl have told other girls that that i flirt with every other girl, all the time. maybe thats why. i for sure not it has spread, i think i done somehtine wrong i am so unexperieced, maybe ask too many questions, ask the girl out too fast, stare at other girls. flirt and chatty with other girls., maybe its the way i laugh since i do laugh at my jokes heheheha which u could say is unusual.
alphamale Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 Originally posted by joel i am so unexperieced that is the truth JOEL
CoolAunt Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 Originally posted by joel ...maybe its b/c i stare for so long hehehe... i flirt with every other girl, all the time. ...i am so unexperieced, maybe ask too many questions, ask the girl out too fast, stare at other girls. flirt and chatty with other girls., maybe its the way i laugh since i do laugh at my jokes heheheha which u could say is unusual. Girls don't like to be stared at or ogled. It's creepy. Also, being asked too many questions, one after the next, can feel like an interrogation. It's even worse if the interrogator asks every girl he can corner the same questions and now can run down the question list automatically, without thought. Not listening to the answers adds insult to injury. Joel, let up with the staring and Lightning Round Q&A sessions. You're too young to be a dirty old man. When you're talking to a girl, don't stare at her, especially don't stare at her boobs. Try to ask questions that are relevant to the conversation. Make sure you ask open ended questions (questions that can not be answered with a simple yes or no). Open ended questions take longer to answer and the answers usually get genuine, non Q&A type conversations started. Resist the urge to think about what you're going to say next while she is answering your question. Instead listen to her answer. You're staring at her boobs again, aren't you? Eyes up, above the collar.
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