crispywat Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Not my first post on here but would like some opionions. I have been in a 3 1/2 month relationship and the first 2 were a whirl wind, we would talk text see each other more or less 24/7. I realise this is too much and we was in honeymoon period but things since seem really poor. We now are reduced to seeing each other about twice a week, i would like ore but basically i am told that we did too much too soon, and she wants space and that i am too full on. Sadly i made a few mistakes by being a little needy and i put her on the defence, but she used to text lovely messages saying miss me, or cant wait see you...little but sweet things. I am not lucky to get a good night message!! The issue is we have a holiday planned and booked for, this is for end of June, again i know we should of booked this....but we did early in our relationship. The second problem (or is that 3rd) is that she has a male friend and i took umbridge to him, she basically texts alot and ive seen some of the texts and they can get inapproproate, though she assures me they are just friends. So anyway we fell out at weekend again due to him and she said she was close to ending it as she is never going to pick me over this friend......i chatted and things seem sorted but today the texts are back to one worders etc......does anyone have advise ? I think she maybe just wanting to see out the relationship until the holiday, but i want the holiday to be special.
PegNosePete Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Sirens blaring WOOP WOOP..... When a woman asks for space it is never a good thing. She is starting to sever the relationship ties. She's either on the way out or has already planned her exit strategy. Oh and then I read your second paragraph about a male friend who she is texting inappropriately WOOP WOOP sirens blaring in stereo now. See if you can get your money back from that holiday ASAP... maybe she just wants to get the holiday out of you before she leaves... maybe she'll just bail before then and leave you to deal with it... maybe she'll just stay with you and cheat with this guy. But whatever happens... sorry to say... it will NOT end well for you.
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