krista28 Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 This guy ive been seeing and I broke up about 2 days ago final ly. Real selfish guy been single for a long time and I cared about him. Hed been a jerk most of the time we were together putting his friends and other stuff first. Im now in a lot of emotional pain. He made plans with me friday and ditched last minute..... again. How can someone get away with this...im in a lot of pain and dont think I could care about anyone again.
Author krista28 Posted June 8, 2014 Author Posted June 8, 2014 thank you for the advice...my friend just informed me that he is already on plenty of fish with tonnes of things posted about how he is not looking for any kind of commitment and just wants to mess around with girls...
irresolute Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Krista, you are as miserable as I was. The guy is not into you. For this reason you're suffering. For this reason you're broken: because HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS YOU LOVE HIM. He's your priority, but you're only one option. See the difference? you're in a sick circle right now, he's trapped you in it by giving all his attention at first, and then withdrawing. All this combined with your broken soul that desperately needs some attention: bad combo. What you need to understand is that the guy is not into you. and he wil never be. Lose any hope you might have: this is not going to work. not today, not tomorrow, NEVER. Find a counselor, you seem to be broken and miserable. go no contact if you really want to heal. I wish you luck. 1
Assasda Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 You probably need to try to concentrate on your own life, and not this guy. When you have your own thing going on, youre also more attractive
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