Author ElectricBoogaloo Posted June 5, 2014 Author Posted June 5, 2014 I am not competing.. it wasn't a competition. It just made me angry how she became after I started talking with him. I love my friend, and I am concerned, that's partly why I chose to stay here.. but there is only so much that a person can take. The negativity and refusal of everything optimistic puts me in a choppy mood. So, sorry if I come off brash. We have been friends for a decade. She's like a sister to me, so I own the right to be a critic. She has gone through a lot in the last 3 years, but she is set in her ways. I am just going to try to find a way to set boundries. As for the guy, he friended me. I messaged him, he didn't message back. I went to the store earlier this week. Didn't say much, just asked how he was. He smiled, but something was different. I figured I probably frekaed him out by asking his contact info. So I stayed away until today. My friend came in with me, but I freaked. He made a little eye contact, I could tell he was feeling a bit awkward. So I didn't go into the store for like 2 days. I went back in and just asked him if he seen what I sent.. He looked at me dumb. He never got my message. We chatted for maybe 20 mins. It was late. I think he was just a bit too busy for a full-blown convo. I get the feeling that he is a face to face talker. Not sure just gonna ride it out. My friend seems okay witth the situation now.
stillafool Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Good that your friend is okay with the situation now. If this was my best friend who had been crushing on a guy, I don't care how cute he was or how much interest he showed me I would pass on him out of respect for my friends feelings. There are just too many men in the world to date rather than risk hurting my friend.
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