Author The killing words Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 She just called again. Didn't answer......See I'm learning LOL
Simon Phoenix Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Geez, I thought I was doing the right thing by not contacting her and just being plain jane on my response to her. I guess that I shouldn't respond at all then. Yes, No Contact means NO CONTACT. No communication of any kind. Really no room for interpretation.
Author The killing words Posted June 3, 2014 Author Posted June 3, 2014 So I have a dilemma, she still has my stuff at her place and I need to get it, how do I go about it with NC. One of the things I cant leave there the others I can. Any thoughts. I tried cooking for my kids and I don't have any spices LOL but that's not what I need. Please let me know. Thanks!!!
Chi townD Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 How much stuff are we talking about? Are we talking a pair a jeans, couple a t-shirts and a few xbox games? If this is the case, I would just write it off. But, if it's a significant amount of stuff, then text her what would be a good time for you to get your sh*t. You can break NC to take care of business. But, when you go over there, BRING SOMEONE WITH YOU! Do this for a couple of reasons. 1. You have a witness if she starts acting stupid. 2. She will be less likely to want to have a heart to heart conversation aka talking at you to convey the break up is your fault....blah...blah....blah... Once you have all of your crap. No more! Go dark! No reason to talk to her anymore.
Author The killing words Posted June 3, 2014 Author Posted June 3, 2014 No its a gun that I bought for her LOL, no she wont use it on me or anyone else. Im embarrassed that I left it there and am admitting it here.
Chi townD Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Is the gun registered to her? If this is the case, the you really don't have a right to it. But, if it's registered to you, then yeah! By all means, get it back! NC can be broken to wrap up loose ends of the relationship. i.e. paying off bills, credit card debt and exchanging personal property. But, when you break NC, you need to be 100% professional. No other talk.
Author The killing words Posted June 3, 2014 Author Posted June 3, 2014 Its registered to me. I texted her and I'm going to get it tonight. She asked why all of a sudden I want to get it. I simply said I need to finally let go
Chi townD Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Bring someone with you, you do what her to goat you into a conversation. In and out. Clean as possible.
Author The killing words Posted June 3, 2014 Author Posted June 3, 2014 I agree, I don't think she will say anything to me. She's done talking and so am I
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