enchanted771 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 I have this habit of overanalyzing/overthinking things so asking.... I was texting this guy I date (casually) earlier. I didn't ask to see him. Was supposed to see him last week but when I didn't hear from him made other plans. Anyways, he tells me he is busy tonight and tomorrow but am I free Monday. I said well I am busy today and Sunday after my son leaves anyways, so Monday would work for me too. 2 hours pass and he says he wanted to surprise me for Monday and sends me this pic of this thing he bought to make us dinner. I told him last week (as a joke) that he has to cook for me next time I see him lol. So 2 hours later, he texts me and asks me if I have plans Sunday night. I found it all very strange and wondered maybe because I took the drivers seat when he said he was busy and I said I was as well? or am I overthinking it? he gave me this work excuse for Monday so not sure how much truth their is to it. I don't accuse because he isn't my boyfriend first of all and second because one time I thought he was lying and he wasn't. I was starting to feel in control then he threw me for a loop....lol what the heck.
jbelle6 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 No, that's silly. He just had something come up on Monday and wants to see you. I think that's good. I just don't find men think that way. If he was controlling I feel he'd do the opposite and not try to make it Sunday, he'd make you wait. And if he wanted control he wouldn't have gone out and bought something in order to give you the date you demanded. LOL Just relax.
Author enchanted771 Posted June 1, 2014 Author Posted June 1, 2014 Thanks yeah I'm being paranoid lol. I thought maybe he mixed up texts.
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