7uckySE7 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 (edited) last summer I saw this cute chic working at this restaurant that I go to. About a month or so, another girl was working there, and I just said something like, "You know that girl over there? She is cute." Anyways, she then told me that she "was in the process of getting back with her ex." Well hey, you know what? Then so be it. If that was the case, then why is she still giving me looks? She is staring at me, looks to the side when she walks by me as I sit on the chair, while waiting for my order. She still acts shy around me. Sometimes her eyes are looking down when she walks by me. IMO, her looks are not like "don't look at me" kind of look. Here are some things to consider: 1) I don't always go to this restaurant. Maybe 3 or 4 times a month. 2) The first time we saw each other, we said "hi" to each other, but the second and third time I tried saying "hi" to her, but I got no reply. LOL. I wasn't offended, if she doesnt want to say anything back, then so be it. (This was all before her friend told her, that I said that she is cute). 3) Before all this, I noticed her very shy around me.Sorry to say, but I am trying to play things safe and not get a head of myself (Assuming that she likes me) Do you think her friend lied to me? And why do you think she is still giving me looks? -Is she not interested? -Is she waiting for me to make a move? -Is she mad, that I am ignoring her? P.S. Recently I went in to order food, and I ignored her, just to see what she would do. Like I said, she is giving me looks still. Edited June 1, 2014 by 7uckySE7
jbelle6 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 Maybe she's shy cause her friend told her what you said about her?
Author 7uckySE7 Posted June 1, 2014 Author Posted June 1, 2014 Maybe she's shy cause her friend told her what you said about her? Could be a possibility. Though she was like that before around me. Maybe I'm just reading her wrong.
jbelle6 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 Ya, I was just thinking maybe that since it would make me super super shy too. Why don't you ask her out? In the process of getting back together is still single to me and then it wouldn't matter if her friend lied since you'd be going to the source. That makes more sense to me cause you'll drive yourself nuts trying to read her mind. Go for it!!!
HappyLove Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 Stop pondering and guessing and have her tell you yes or no personally. If it's no just make sure she understands there's no hard feelings. She is at work so depending on the atmosphere she may be hesitant to dating a customer. But asking friends and making a bunch of assumptions will get you nowhere.
Author 7uckySE7 Posted June 1, 2014 Author Posted June 1, 2014 Stop pondering and guessing and have her tell you yes or no personally. If it's no just make sure she understands there's no hard feelings. She is at work so depending on the atmosphere she may be hesitant to dating a customer. But asking friends and making a bunch of assumptions will get you nowhere. As mentioned before, on a couple occasions I have at least made an effort to acknowledge her by saying "hi" by looking at her, but I got no reply. Which is fine, it's not going to stop me from stopping by.
HappyLove Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 As mentioned before, on a couple occasions I have at least made an effort to acknowledge her by saying "hi" by looking at her, but I got no reply. Which is fine, it's not going to stop me from stopping by. I'd think you need to say more than hi if you'd like to take someone out on a date. 2
jbelle6 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 No, looking at her doesn't say "hi". LOL Just freaking ask her out, she says no, then fine.
Author 7uckySE7 Posted June 1, 2014 Author Posted June 1, 2014 I'd think you need to say more than hi if you'd like to take someone out on a date. Haha, you think? Kind of hard, when she literally gave me the cold shoulder when I tried talking to her. And I thought I was shy! Same time, what do I got to lose right? 1
Author 7uckySE7 Posted June 1, 2014 Author Posted June 1, 2014 No, looking at her doesn't say "hi". LOL Just freaking ask her out, she says no, then fine. No! Lmao. I looked at her, and as I looked at her, I said "hi". C'mon, now, lol.
preraph Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 The part about her saying hi back the first time but not the next times, to me, is perhaps not shyness but disinterest. I mean, she wasn't too shy to say hi the first time so why do you think she's too shy to say hi now? And of course, try to not forget that she's working in a restaurant you are a customer of, so she's being paid to smile. But if there's some doubt in your mind, then just go up and ask her out. Any answer other than yes means no.
jbelle6 Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 LOL! SORRY! But you said: "acknowledge her by saying "hi" by looking at her" So I didn't know what the heck!
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