Hungup123 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 I'll try and keep this short and sweet: 1) Been on 4 dates so far, have only led to heavy kissing 2) Last date she invited me over for dinner and a movie, but she got extremely sick after we made dinner. 3) We rescheduled for tonight to do it again, but last minute she says her roommate and her boyfriend want to go to a late movie as a double date. So this will be the 5th date, and I can't really see any escalation of intimacy when going on a double date to a movie. I've already agreed to it at this point, because if I say "no lets just have a night to ourselves at your place", it will come off as slightly creepy and weird, since her roommate and boyfriend will be going out and coming back as well. I can't invite her over to my place because I'm temporarily living at my sister's until my house is finished being built. I'm not trying to just get laid as shes a fun person to be around, but I'm afraid that this will be projecting a friend zone vibe since nothing will likely be able to happen on this date. Any ideas?
Gaeta Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 What a silly idea. Your reasoning makes no sense. There is no expiration date here that after 3 dates and no sex you're automatically sent to the friend zone. If you've had some heavy kissing then you have attraction, that's the most important thing. Also, FYI, being intimate with her in no way guaranties you being kept out of the friend zone. 1
RonaldS Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 There can always be an escalation to intimacy. Just because it can't happen right then and there doesn't mean you can't set the tone for it. 1
AJLeeFan123 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 She may have some trust issues and wants to take it slow. Maybe she wants to get to know you better before she lets it get any further intimate than heavy kissing.
somedude81 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 Start touching her breasts and butt when you make out.
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