pies Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 I met a guy who was in a relationship, and it was clear that we liked each other but he went on with his gf. When a year later they broke up, he started chasing after me and he suggested fwb because he wasn't obviously ready for a relationship. I rejected him. A few months later he told me that he was being transferred for a year of research in another state, and that he wanted me in many ways (not just sexually), but that he didn't want to go long-distance when the time came, so he suggested fwb for the meantime 'so we didn't get too attached'... I rejected him again. I began seeing someone shortly afterwards, but we called it off recently and he's been flirting with me ever since he found out. And he's leaving for a whole year in 3 weeks. I don't know if he's interested in me beyond being fwb or he just keeps chasing me because I became physically unapproachable or if he really likes me but doesn't want to have it blown up by the distance + third parties. I wonder what will happen when he comes back, if we're both available that is... What do you think? It's gonna be a downer when he's finally gone
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 Let him go. Stay casually in touch with him while he's away but date other people. When he comes back if you both want a relationship at that point, give it a shot. For now assume that will not happen & live your life accordingly. 3
jbelle6 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 I met a guy who was in a relationship, and it was clear that we liked each other but he went on with his gf. When a year later they broke up, he started chasing after me and he suggested fwb because he wasn't obviously ready for a relationship. I rejected him. A few months later he told me that he was being transferred for a year of research in another state, and that he wanted me in many ways (not just sexually), but that he didn't want to go long-distance when the time came, so he suggested fwb for the meantime 'so we didn't get too attached'... I rejected him again. I began seeing someone shortly afterwards, but we called it off recently and he's been flirting with me ever since he found out. And he's leaving for a whole year in 3 weeks. I don't know if he's interested in me beyond being fwb or he just keeps chasing me because I became physically unapproachable or if he really likes me but doesn't want to have it blown up by the distance + third parties. I wonder what will happen when he comes back, if we're both available that is... What do you think? It's gonna be a downer when he's finally gone I think he wants sex. The FWB scenario was not appealing to you so he tried a different approach. Don't go by words men tell you, go by actions. He's never ever offered you more than FWB, so that's what he wants.
Author pies Posted May 31, 2014 Author Posted May 31, 2014 I think he wants sex. The FWB scenario was not appealing to you so he tried a different approach. Don't go by words men tell you, go by actions. He's never ever offered you more than FWB, so that's what he wants. Well he can go get it elsewhere... I got myself too emotionally involved when it comes to him, I hope I can get over it in this year.
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