Kcnln Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 Heya forum, Im going to make this post as short as possible so that it doesn't seem too much, or too annoying for someone to read. I did create a post about a month back completely devastated, but theres some updates since that day that I wanted to address ontop of just going over everything again in a short version, to basically see what my next move should be. Wells then, I've been in a relationship with a girl i met after high school from may 27 2011 till about very early March 2014. I didn't talk to her for about two months until april 20th. And thats when I tried to get back and it didn't work out because she thought I hurt her bad. In which I apologized and did A WHOLE LOT MORE then just apologize. Im not going to go in detail, but I said everything I could possibly say and told her I loved her and that Im always here for her. I tried to get her back for about 2 weeks straight(around april 20th-30th) She then called me a week later(may 8th) after finally saying forget it,(NC) Ill stop messaging and calling. she said she missed me and wanted to see how I was and we talked all day, only to hear her say never mind this can't work out because I think you will hurt me again. I tried to make it work, but as it seemed like a failure, I said my last words which was Im still here, I won't ever hurt you again(We've never broken up before I should add), that I don't know what else to say because I've said everything just please don't reply to me as its making me feel worse if you don't want me. When she called it showed me that she still cared and she also said she wanted to see me but at the same time didn't. It really confused the hell out of me and hurt me even more. Now since conversation we hung up and Ive been thinking about her since, honestly just killing myself over it which I know I shouldn't. I want her back so bad that words aren't enough. I feel like i actually did love her and don't know what to say in return on her side of the feelings. Our 3 year mark was the 27th of may which just passed. Since that day on the phone (May 8th) we haven't spoken and I was hoping she would call on the 27th. She didn't and I ended up sending a heart over text at least just to show I cared. She didn't respond and now Im resuming back to NC. My birthday is On June 1st in 2 days and Im wondering if she will call me and what I would say if she did. If she wishes a regular happy birthday and such, should I just say thank you and resume NC until she wants me or? Just wanted to know what the next step would be, as I can't help myself in these types of scenarios, but when it happens to someone else I feel like I know all the answers -__-. Thank you.
jbelle6 Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 Why worry about something that hasn't even happened? If she didn't respond to your heart then I sort of doubt she will acknowledge your b-day. If she does I don't think I'd respond. I guess a "thank you" might be ok, but I really wouldn't. Time to move on, you can force someones feelings. They either come around or they don't.
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