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begged and pleaded, now no contact, should i expect her to try to contact me


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when my girlfriend dumped me i begged and pleaded for about three weeks and would always get mad and say mean things.

 

I basically gave up and have been no contact for 2 weeks now

 

should i expect her to at some point try to contact me? or did i ruin that chance by acting desperate?

 

if she does try to contact me i want to be able to stand strong and say no

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If you're lucky, she won't contact you at all! Time to heal and move on, dude.

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i forgot in one of teh last messages she sent she said "i do miss you and think about you"

 

if she does contact me i want to be able to stay strong

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"I miss you" and "I think about you" mean absolutely.... wait for it.... NOTHING!!!!!

 

I miss and think about the steak I had for dinner last week...

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i forgot in one of teh last messages she sent she said "i do miss you and think about you"

 

if she does contact me i want to be able to stay strong

 

 

Read what that text REALLY says, "I do miss you (but, not enough to come back to you) and I think about you (but not enough to think about fixing things)"

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Don't fall for her meaningless stupid breadcrumbs. Don't. Block her the next time you feel the 'temptation' rising to contact her again.

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if you stay nc she will contatc you within two months

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Hey man straight up. It's like this.

 

Apologize for being so crazy. Leave it one sentence.

 

Tell her your ok and agree with the breakup.

 

Then tell her if she changes her mind in the future to look you up.

 

Wish her well and then walk away and go silent. You did more damage than you needed to in the last few weeks. You were needy and weak.

 

So walk away. Get a fresh look on life and make yourself better.

 

She will contact you withing two months and if you are the same person. You will fail. Become a better man. Get ****ing cocky and confident. So when she does contact you that you know what you deserve.

 

She left because of your pussy mentality.

 

I am just telling it like it is.

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"You are beautiful. You always have been. I have felt all messed up and lost too the last few days. I keep wanting to cry all the time. I passed my test. I don't know how but I did. I want you to know that I will ALWAYS think you are the most gorgeous girl in the world. I miss talking to you."

 

 

 

OK, I got this breadcrumb 2 days after being dumped. know what it meant? Jack all. He missed me enough to shoot me that email. Romance for the ages huh?

 

Thank God I never responded. Hope that gives you a little example.

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