TerriW Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 So my ex and I broke up just yesterday and I've already begun NC. This is definitely my best breakup yet. I hurt horribly but this time there's no looking back. I may miss him and want him back but I know there's nothing left for me there. Let me back up a bit. We had an argument yesterday. I decided that I was sick of the fights so I did something I've always been scared to do. I was completely honest. I told him the things he does that upset me and how he puts the whole burden of the relationship sometimes. It hurt to finally say all those things, and I was crying the whole time, but I also felt relieved to get it off my chest. I told him I couldn't keep brushing those things off anymore. I told him I needed him to change and if he wasn't willing to, then he lets me know so that we can part ways. He called me back one hour later and told me he was done. And I was fine with it. It's good to know straight up how unimportant I was to him. At least I know there's nothing left for me in that relationship anymore. I just need to vent. I'm so hurt and angry and disappointed and so many other things I can't put in words. But that's for another post.
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