stillfiguringitallou Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 Day 4 Things I don't miss: How everything was always about him, EXCEPT, the negative things. Anytime I brought up anything negative about him, things he needed to work on to be healthy, it was always turned around on me. How I feel now: That just like an addict, you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. You can't stop someone who only feels comfortable as the victim, be a survivor. How I'll eventually feel: I won't care if he is hurting, I won't want to help him heal, and maybe, I won't care how his inability to work on himself will only continue to hurt him.
stillfiguringitallou Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Day 5 Thing I DON'T miss: How he always lashed out anytime he was losing control. How I feel now: That he is pathetic, petty, and destined to remain bitter How I'll eventually feel: nothing - eventually it will all just be a good memory and everything I don't miss will just not exist anymore
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 The Thing I DON'T Miss His back-handed compliments! Seriously. He was the king of them. "Great dinner baby but next time don't use so much garlic." "Thanks for ironing my clothes babe but next time don't iron a hard seam into the sleeve." "You look very pretty tonight but I wish you wore you hair up and out of your face." "Thanks for the present but I really didn't need this. You could have saved the money." And on and on and on it goes....!!!!!! I didn't realize just how damaging it was to hear these kinds of slanted compliments. I started to believe I couldn't do anything right anymore. 2
Mary Oak Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 I don't miss the constant arguments over her family. Evidentially at the time they were not ok with her being gay. But now everything is rainbows and butterflies with her new girlfriend. I resent the fact I had to bridge that ago for them. My mom still loves her and they keep in touch. So thankful not to have to feel unwanted anymore.
me85 Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 The Thing I DON'T Miss His back-handed compliments! Seriously. He was the king of them. "Great dinner baby but next time don't use so much garlic." "Thanks for ironing my clothes babe but next time don't iron a hard seam into the sleeve." "You look very pretty tonight but I wish you wore you hair up and out of your face." "Thanks for the present but I really didn't need this. You could have saved the money." And on and on and on it goes....!!!!!! I didn't realize just how damaging it was to hear these kinds of slanted compliments. I started to believe I couldn't do anything right anymore. Awww hugz He sounds like one of those "it'll never be enough" kind of jerks. Good thing you got away from that! 1
bluestraps Posted June 3, 2014 Posted June 3, 2014 Her ****ing other guys behind my back. We were dating then. But She just did it again, We are just FWB. She met some guy on the street c.
blagerjagr Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Thing I DON'T miss: Being constantly pressured to move. Always being wrong in arguments. Having her our private problems to her friends, especially guy friends. Being too close with her guy friends and making look bad. Her mood swings. Her refusal to open up to my family. And above all, at the end when I told her I would like to work it out she strung me along for 3 months (even after i repeatedly said if you don't want me to fly see you, please stop contacting me), telling me she loved and missed me, even up to the night she sent me a final 2 line EMAIL saying she was seeing someone new and didn't even have the courtesy to call (I obviously didn't respond). How I feel now: I was angry and in denial earlier this week. Transitioning to sadness at the knowledge that I could never be with again, not after she's been with someone else and betrayed me like that. Sad that I think we could have been a good coupled and worked through this but we won't be able to be anymore. How I'll feel eventually: Accepting of the situation. I'll always think she made a mistake at jumping to the next guy and not giving us another chance, but will accept her decision as well and not wish ill will on her. Next time when in a relationship I will try to communicate my displeasures more freely (it was really hard to with her). 1
Lizie29 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 Thing I DON'T miss: Feeling like I'm being constantly manipulated, monitored and deliberately toyed with by someone who values having the upper hand more than genuine intimacy/connection in his relationships. Fo sho. Love this thread! Thanks for starting it. My life is better now that I don't have someone controlling me, abusing me and always making me feel so small. The worst thing was my ex did not/does not respect me period what so ever because I didn't have as much schooling as him but I'm just as smart. He absolutely made me feel less than and beneath him in almost every possible way. He actually told me he wanted to be a better boyfriend to his new gf when they first started talking and that "She's making something of herself. She has goals." I could go on and on with all the cruel things he's ever said or done to me. Heck, that would take quite a while to go through. I guess what I'm saying is I don't miss how my ex made me feel not good enough the majority of the time. I don't miss the abuse. I don't miss being used and liked only for sex. I was just a sex object to him. Not a person with feelings. I don't miss how it was always about him and his family & whatever they said went. I don't miss being last resort, second best, not a priority in his life. This is awesome. I need to list this stuff everyday! Thank you so much! You're like me. We have been seeing the good but when we really think about it the bad outweighs the good. Significantly. I want to keep going but it will be just, so ... people will really think "Man she's a freaking full blown idiot for staying with someone after being treated that way by them for so long." It's just awful and humiliating. WOW exacly my story ! Especially the part when u say : The worst thing was my ex did not/does not respect me period what so ever because I didn't have as much schooling as him but I'm just as smart. He absolutely made me feel less than and beneath him in almost every possible way. He actually told me he wanted to be a better boyfriend to his new gf when they first started talking and that "She's making something of herself. She has goals." They can be so cruel sometimes 1
me85 Posted June 4, 2014 Posted June 4, 2014 WOW exacly my story ! Especially the part when u say : The worst thing was my ex did not/does not respect me period what so ever because I didn't have as much schooling as him but I'm just as smart. He absolutely made me feel less than and beneath him in almost every possible way. He actually told me he wanted to be a better boyfriend to his new gf when they first started talking and that "She's making something of herself. She has goals." They can be so cruel sometimes Yes they can be. I'm sorry for your hurt. All that stuff is in the past, but not too far in the past and has probably done more damage than I realize. But I won't sit around and let him get the best of me anymore because I know for a fact I'm a great catch and that he was very lucky to have ever had me in his life at all. 2
SoThatHappened Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Don't miss constantly conforming to her needs Don't miss how unstable she was (honestly I believe bi-polar) Don't miss being with someone who has slept with 4 times more people in 6 years than I have in 18 years Don't miss everything being on her schedule and doing what she wanted to do. If it didn't fit her mold or I couldn't make it work, I was an issue. Don't miss how NOTHING could just roll off her back when I did something wrong, but if she messed up, she was "tired", "emotional", "hormonal", "had a tough day", "hungry", etc... etc... etc... Don't miss how demanding, demeaning, and belittling she was, and the sad part is she didn't even recognize it. Don't miss her forcing her agenda and schedule on me. Don't miss her complaining about her family. Don't miss her tattoos... a couple of the dumbest I've ever seen. Don't miss how she let her 2 y/o daughter run everything without any discipline whatsoever. Don't miss her being loud and waking me up at 4:30 AM because that's when she had to get up for work. Don't miss her messiness, and then the "sorry I left a mess for you to clean up" Don't miss her WANTING drama, whether from her end or my end Don't miss her shopping AT LEAST once a week when she had little money, depended on me or her family, and had a daughter to support Don't miss her wanting a motorcycle when she couldn't even support herself Don't miss her lying and hiding things and going behind my back. Wow... that felt kinda good... geez, why was I even with this girl?
leavesonautumn Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 Don't Miss.... Not knowing who he was going to be from one day to the next. No ambition to leave "the nest". The need to feel perfect and feel bad if I was sad/upset/anything that he couldn't handle. The fact that everything had to be ~~ poetic. (Personal annoyance of mine ) Commitment issues. Making me feel like I have some sort of personality disorder because I felt an emotion other than happiness or feeling "normal". (This one really, really gets to me. Makes me feel like **** about myself) Couldn't communicate how he felt in person, always used emails or text. (which is how every one of our break ups/reconciliations happened) Reading into things that never existed. (Would accuse me of having a bitchy tone in a text when it was anything but) Porn addiction. (This one was super fun)
Rar0 Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 Although he wasn't entirely unattractive or a crummy person, I didn't like his lifestyle.
leavesonautumn Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 Don't Miss.... Not knowing who he was going to be from one day to the next. No ambition to leave "the nest". The need to feel perfect and feel bad if I was sad/upset/anything that he couldn't handle. The fact that everything had to be ~~ poetic. (Personal annoyance of mine ) Commitment issues. Making me feel like I have some sort of personality disorder because I felt an emotion other than happiness or feeling "normal". (This one really, really gets to me. Makes me feel like **** about myself) Couldn't communicate how he felt in person, always used emails or text. (which is how every one of our break ups/reconciliations happened) Reading into things that never existed. (Would accuse me of having a bitchy tone in a text when it was anything but) Porn addiction. (This one was super fun) And also.... Lies and Manipulation. (He could say one thing one day and the opposite the next and call me an idiot when I didn't believe him)
southbound Posted June 7, 2014 Posted June 7, 2014 Oh I'm totally playing along with this. Need to blow off some steam and rid myself of urge to contact. I don't miss your strong narcissistic tendencies I don't miss your complete lack of empathy I don't miss your constant need for validation from other men, making me feel constantly as if I and our relationship weren't enough for you I don't miss your lack of respect of me I don't miss having to constantly wait on you when you were at my house as if I was your butler. I don't miss your secrets disguised as your need for "privacy" I don't miss your inability to take responsibility for your actions, like cheating on me with fatass while you blamed it on alcohol. I don't miss having to constantly give to the relationship while you constantly take. No balance at all.
sugarlove Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 I don't Miss.. 1. the fact that he doesn't know where to go or what to do during the weekends 2. spending all weekends on a couch watching downloaded korean movies which I felt was a waste of a good day at times. 3. not giving me any constructive opinions on our future plans 4. the inability to take initiatives with our future plans 5. not trying to understand that I need space to do my own things at times and putting it on himself as a personal attacks 6. not introducing me to his friends or at least not being willing to go out with his mates when he was asked, not sociable 7. making fun of his extended family, not showing care for them and making jokes on their expense 8. too dependant on his family's opinions, we were in the process of buying our first home together, and every single choice is consulted with his dad to the point there was times when it was a discussion between me and his dad while he left the room to do his own things. felt abit strange to me. 9. inability to forgive or at least give me a chance to talk things out in an mature manner. this is our first breakup and it's been 2 months and he's still cutting off all contact. 10. sexting random women on Linkedin, emailing his exes and arranging meetups with these strange women, not disclosing he was in a serious relationship with me
sugarlove Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 (edited) How I feel now: I feel I've made a lot of progress. I've allowed myself to cry and grieve for him for 2 months. Wrote a few letters which I've sent and also in the last week tried to reconcile by dropping off a few cakes I baked for him. Progressing from hurt - pain - rejection - self evaluation - counselling - forgiveness - rebuilding trust to finally letting go is to me, a healthy way to get over a break up. I feel a load has been off my shoulders. Relieved and happy that I've proceeded with my counselling and am in a better mindset now to recieve new love. I feel free and happy. I do miss him a lot as he has been good to me, supported me and played happy family with me for a bit. He has made me feel that after a messy divorce, that I can also be loved in the future. I feel optimistic about finding love and I'm excited to wait to see what life has in store for me. What I realize now: I realised now that I wanted a man who is loyal and faithful. I'm a strong individual and always strive to better myself. I do not like a stagnated relationship, or one whereby i do not grow better as a person. It's great to be loved and it's wonderful that he is a nice guy.But there are always nice people in this world and the honeymoon period will be filled with positive memories. But what I truly needed, is a guy who can handle tough times. Someone who will not give up on me when I needed him most. I haven't even given up on myself yet and haven't given up on him after the breakup. So his lack of want to work things out is a disappointment and a red flag to me. I realised I need someone who is brave enough to apologise and tackle hard issues with me. I don't want a man who is too sensitive and takes things personally instead of trying to dig deeper into why we stop communicating. I'm not perfect. No one is but eventually, there will be someone who is perfect for me because I am perfect for him. Forcing a relationship because you can't let go of a wonderful past is an error in judgment. It ended because the relationship is flawed and not for me. It ended because he didn't love me enough so I should let go and open myself up for someone even better. Choosing to accept the end of something means I can now work on building something new with someone else. Edited June 8, 2014 by sugarlove 3
chelsea2011 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Thing I DON'T miss: Feeling like I'm being constantly manipulated, monitored and deliberately toyed with by someone who values having the upper hand more than genuine intimacy/connection in his relationships. Fo sho. Love this thread! Thanks for starting it. My life is better now that I don't have someone controlling me, abusing me and always making me feel so small. The worst thing was my ex did not/does not respect me period what so ever because I didn't have as much schooling as him but I'm just as smart. He absolutely made me feel less than and beneath him in almost every possible way. He actually told me he wanted to be a better boyfriend to his new gf when they first started talking and that "She's making something of herself. She has goals." I could go on and on with all the cruel things he's ever said or done to me. Heck, that would take quite a while to go through. I guess what I'm saying is I don't miss how my ex made me feel not good enough the majority of the time. I don't miss the abuse. I don't miss being used and liked only for sex. I was just a sex object to him. Not a person with feelings. I don't miss how it was always about him and his family & whatever they said went. I don't miss being last resort, second best, not a priority in his life. This is awesome. I need to list this stuff everyday! Thank you so much! You're like me. We have been seeing the good but when we really think about it the bad outweighs the good. Significantly. I want to keep going but it will be just, so ... people will really think "Man she's a freaking full blown idiot for staying with someone after being treated that way by them for so long." It's just awful and humiliating. I'm right there with ya sister! Can totally relate. Don't beat yourself up! Be glad you're free instead.
redbaron005 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 1. Hints. Just tell me what you want, for bloody sake. 2. Insecurities. Believe in who you are, I should not have to constantly reinforce that you're awesome. 3. Gypsie-ness. Left for a new location every four months, would not settle down with me, you have to back up your words with actions honey. 4. Secrets. I am not just an option. 5. Immaturities. A doubled edged sword, the innocence was sexy but the avoidence of life responsibilities was frustrating. I am not your dad stand in. 6. Anger. Only got mad at me for the stupid things but internslized everything that mattered. 7. Pressure. We loved each other do much that when we did get intimate there was a lot of pressure. Not ideal. Too lazy to do this day-by-day. Also I will add I love(d) her, so I was willing to overlook a lot bc of that. I think good communication and trust would have been key to hedging most of these. Also, learning what's really important in life.
Schooner Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 Sentences that start with "I'm not criticizing you but..."
Elle1975 Posted June 8, 2014 Posted June 8, 2014 I don't Miss.. 1. the fact that he doesn't know where to go or what to do during the weekends 2. spending all weekends on a couch watching downloaded korean movies which I felt was a waste of a good day at times. 3. not giving me any constructive opinions on our future plans 4. the inability to take initiatives with our future plans 5. not trying to understand that I need space to do my own things at times and putting it on himself as a personal attacks 6. not introducing me to his friends or at least not being willing to go out with his mates when he was asked, not sociable 7. making fun of his extended family, not showing care for them and making jokes on their expense 8. too dependant on his family's opinions, we were in the process of buying our first home together, and every single choice is consulted with his dad to the point there was times when it was a discussion between me and his dad while he left the room to do his own things. felt abit strange to me. 9. inability to forgive or at least give me a chance to talk things out in an mature manner. this is our first breakup and it's been 2 months and he's still cutting off all contact. 10. sexting random women on Linkedin, emailing his exes and arranging meetups with these strange women, not disclosing he was in a serious relationship with me So.. you dated an immature couch dweller.. dam girl, you're in a much better place now.. Being single is an upgrade by itself! 1
sugarlove Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 (edited) So.. you dated an immature couch dweller.. dam girl, you're in a much better place now.. Being single is an upgrade by itself! THank you. I definitely am. It's not easy. I don't think being a dumpee is an easy thing and I don't wish it on anyone. But I know now that through it, I"ve took the time out to grow myself, spiritually and emotionally. I did a lot of self-reflection and can see where I can do better in my next relationship. The next man who come into my life, he will reap the rewards that I've learn from the breakup and it's all thanks to my ex's shortsightedness to see the potential in me. Right now, I know he's probably wasting this breakup sitting in his room watching videos. So, despite it is painful and hard for a dumpee at the present time due to conflicted emotions. IN retrospect, I think it's a good thing for me. A blessing in disguise. I will not have it any other way. Edited June 10, 2014 by sugarlove
ktya Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 I dont miss... Feeling like an ATM machine because she blew through her monthly income in a week and needed cigarettes, food, soda pop and help with the bills (she paid the bills i paid the rent... But she didnt pay the bills) Not being able to go out and do stuff because if i went alone i was made to feel bad because i wasnt taking her, but if i took her and her kid i would be paying for three which made it unaffordable. Having my internet history regularly scanned, and being grilled about my google searches, because she was always afraid i was cheating when i wasnt and didnt even have any female friends, let alone chicks on the side. Coming home to look on the kitchen table and seeing four days worth of the kids breakfast dishes side by side in a progressive states of congealing milk. Looking at the living room table to see 14 empty packs of cigarettes and six empty two litre bottles of cola. Doing three loads of laundry a day and even that wasnt sufficient to keep up because despite staying home all day she went through six pairs of socks, four pairs of pants, two sets of pyjamas and five shirts. Waking up to see her sleeping on the couch yet one more time with the television on and having to get the kid up and ready for school even though i had to get to work and she didnt work. Getting calls from the school at work because nobody came to pick her up and nobody was answering the phone at home. Rushing home early to grab the kid from school only to get a call from her when i was halfway there to hear that she fell asleep on the couch because she was up all night. Having it take a month to get the house clean enough for me to feel comfortable having my family come over for boxing day. Having her ask me to give her a weeks warning if i was going to take her and the kid swimming because she hadnt shaved her legs in a month. Having her bitch and beak not one more god damned time about how i like to have drinks when i get home after work and how it makes her unhappy when she was so god damned miserable 24/7 and he house was such a mess id have to put my cigarette pack on top of my drink because if i didnt three fruit flies would land in it. Fruit flies. I will not miss them. She had an aversion to taking the compost out because the smell of the bin "made her gag". Unfortunately, accidentally swallowing a fruit fly that landed in my drink made me gag a lot worse. Her horde. When my garage was filled to the brim with miscellaneous junk, my basement three quarters filled with junk, spare room filled with junk, and every storage cubby so filled with crap that i couldnt find anything. Im still dealing with the horde 7 months later. Bitch. The glass half empty philosophy. For every solution that i proposed to a household problem, she simply found ten more reasons why i should spend money when a little creativity could have solved the problem even temporarily. She got super stars for finding a zillion reasons why we couldnt just hang clothes to dry until the dryer got fixed. My friend even offered to carry them to the laundromat for her and that still wasnt good enough. The dryer repairman was scheduled to come within the week. Girl guide cookies. I will not miss them. She would have the kid sell them and end up spending a huge chunk of the money. I dont even really like them, and in one day i spend $550 on the damn things that i never wanted nor ate. Dentures. She drank so much soda pop she rotted her teeth out and had to get almost all of her teeth pulled. At age 33. Ugh. Dinner. She refused to eat vegetables of practically any kind, wouldnt eat fish and because of her teeth couldnt eat much meat so she survived on potatoes, pasta and ground beef. If an onion "contaminated" her food she refused to touch it, ditto for mushrooms. I went from a 37 waist down to a 32 after she left with little additional exercise. Utility bills. My electric bill is now less than half of what it was a year ago when she was here. Watching a 50 inch plasma 24 hours a day and needing to do laundry 5 times a day while leaving your 800 watt computer you havent used in weeks running 24/7 will do that. And who needs $360 a month worth of cable tv??? Excuses. When bringing up that the house was filthy and before she moved in you could eat off my floor, she would blame the kid. "its one thing for a bunch of batchelors living in the house to keep it all nice and clean. But we have a kid here". Mofo say what? I thought it was the single guys who had a bad rep for being slobs, not stay at home moms. Garrg. Why the fk did i put up with all this sht for so long?!? 2
Raena Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 I dont miss... Feeling like an ATM machine because she blew through her monthly income in a week and needed cigarettes, food, soda pop and help with the bills (she paid the bills i paid the rent... But she didnt pay the bills) Not being able to go out and do stuff because if i went alone i was made to feel bad because i wasnt taking her, but if i took her and her kid i would be paying for three which made it unaffordable. Having my internet history regularly scanned, and being grilled about my google searches, because she was always afraid i was cheating when i wasnt and didnt even have any female friends, let alone chicks on the side. Coming home to look on the kitchen table and seeing four days worth of the kids breakfast dishes side by side in a progressive states of congealing milk. Looking at the living room table to see 14 empty packs of cigarettes and six empty two litre bottles of cola. Doing three loads of laundry a day and even that wasnt sufficient to keep up because despite staying home all day she went through six pairs of socks, four pairs of pants, two sets of pyjamas and five shirts. Waking up to see her sleeping on the couch yet one more time with the television on and having to get the kid up and ready for school even though i had to get to work and she didnt work. Getting calls from the school at work because nobody came to pick her up and nobody was answering the phone at home. Rushing home early to grab the kid from school only to get a call from her when i was halfway there to hear that she fell asleep on the couch because she was up all night. Having it take a month to get the house clean enough for me to feel comfortable having my family come over for boxing day. Having her ask me to give her a weeks warning if i was going to take her and the kid swimming because she hadnt shaved her legs in a month. Having her bitch and beak not one more god damned time about how i like to have drinks when i get home after work and how it makes her unhappy when she was so god damned miserable 24/7 and he house was such a mess id have to put my cigarette pack on top of my drink because if i didnt three fruit flies would land in it. Fruit flies. I will not miss them. She had an aversion to taking the compost out because the smell of the bin "made her gag". Unfortunately, accidentally swallowing a fruit fly that landed in my drink made me gag a lot worse. Her horde. When my garage was filled to the brim with miscellaneous junk, my basement three quarters filled with junk, spare room filled with junk, and every storage cubby so filled with crap that i couldnt find anything. Im still dealing with the horde 7 months later. Bitch. The glass half empty philosophy. For every solution that i proposed to a household problem, she simply found ten more reasons why i should spend money when a little creativity could have solved the problem even temporarily. She got super stars for finding a zillion reasons why we couldnt just hang clothes to dry until the dryer got fixed. My friend even offered to carry them to the laundromat for her and that still wasnt good enough. The dryer repairman was scheduled to come within the week. Girl guide cookies. I will not miss them. She would have the kid sell them and end up spending a huge chunk of the money. I dont even really like them, and in one day i spend $550 on the damn things that i never wanted nor ate. Dentures. She drank so much soda pop she rotted her teeth out and had to get almost all of her teeth pulled. At age 33. Ugh. Dinner. She refused to eat vegetables of practically any kind, wouldnt eat fish and because of her teeth couldnt eat much meat so she survived on potatoes, pasta and ground beef. If an onion "contaminated" her food she refused to touch it, ditto for mushrooms. I went from a 37 waist down to a 32 after she left with little additional exercise. Utility bills. My electric bill is now less than half of what it was a year ago when she was here. Watching a 50 inch plasma 24 hours a day and needing to do laundry 5 times a day while leaving your 800 watt computer you havent used in weeks running 24/7 will do that. And who needs $360 a month worth of cable tv??? Excuses. When bringing up that the house was filthy and before she moved in you could eat off my floor, she would blame the kid. "its one thing for a bunch of batchelors living in the house to keep it all nice and clean. But we have a kid here". Mofo say what? I thought it was the single guys who had a bad rep for being slobs, not stay at home moms. Garrg. Why the fk did i put up with all this sht for so long?!? Wow! That was one heck of a rant! It sounds like you are so much better off without her and that disgusting mess! Ugh! I feel gross for you and I wasn't even there. It makes me want to go clean up my own house even though it isn't that dirty! Don't blame yourself for putting up with that craziness for so long, just be happy that you can now finally live in peace (and cleanliness)!
ktya Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Wow! That was one heck of a rant! It sounds like you are so much better off without her and that disgusting mess! Ugh! I feel gross for you and I wasn't even there. It makes me want to go clean up my own house even though it isn't that dirty! Don't blame yourself for putting up with that craziness for so long, just be happy that you can now finally live in peace (and cleanliness)! Yeah i was upset the night she left (she left because i was pissy about wanting her to clean the house once a week so i could rent rooms in my house) but totally releived the next morning upon the realization that if i cleaned the house it would actually stay clean. My cousin came over not long ago. The first words out of her mouth were, "oh my god kris, this place looks so much better now that _____ isnt living here." 1
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